Pressure in getting a job at young age?

Question

i'm a 16 year old female, never had job experience and i'm starting to apply i know that i have studies and i'm gonna graduate in 1 year but now i feel there's this pressure for me to have a job even though my parents say i dont need to i feel like i have to help them seeing the situation at home and i know i'm not responsible but i feel like i have to give back and hey who wouldn't like to have their own money? but noone called me for an interview yet :( i really think it's because i dont have any work experience but i really want to start SOMEWHERE how can i assure them that i can do the job i dont want employers to hesitate me just because i never had a job before i mean i'm devoted enough to get a job and stick to it with good time management!! share ur own experiences... thanks!

Answer 1

I got my first job a week after I turned 16. At Wendys.
You can't be picky about jobs, and, unfortunately, you have to start at the bottom.
If you don't live in a big city, opportunities are limited. You will most likely have to start at a fast food place and get your experience there on how to work cash registers, and mainly, deal with the horrible public.
Think you can deal with people? So did I. First jobs are never great, but they give you tons of discipline and experience. That way, you can move up in the world and work at Target or something, where there isn't greasy food and the public at the same time.
Try to apply for some hostessing jobs at sit-down restaurants. If you're lucky, you can get that as your first job, and you probably wont have to come home smelling like greasy fries and sweat.
I think employers discriminate among hostessing jobs though, because I have braces and why pick the girl with braces when you can have the girl that looks like a future supermodel to greet your guests, whether she's conceited or not?!! (sorry..bad experience.)

Oh--also, if they don't call you, you have to call them and ask if they've reviewed your application or not.

Anyway, good luck, and keep an open mind!

Answer 2

As far as a part time job. Find something that you like and that does not interfere with your school. Keep in mind that is most important thing.
When looking for a job, you may have to fill out some applications and just go through the process a few times to get the hang of it. A lot of places take applications, but don't really need someone right away or at all.
You will probably have to call back, rather than wait for a call.
If you are looking to work 15 hours a week, sit down with your parents and go over your plan and how you will use your income. Good luck.

Answer 3

I know exactly how you feel. I'm 18 now, but I had a really hard time when I was looking a few years ago. One problem is that a lot of places say they are hiring, but they really just keep your resume and application on file incase someone quits.

I would suggest that you think of any connections you might have...I know you might not want to impose on people, but most everyone I know that got jobs at your age only got them because they knew someone.

Another thing is that you might end up having to work somewhere that might not be your first choice. It's probably easier to get a job that's not at clothing store, etc. If you do that, then you will have more experience and have a better chance of getting a job you really want later on.

Since summer is coming up, it would actually be kind of nice to have a job so you won't be bored. You could meet some fun people and it is always nice to have extra money.

Keep at it and good Luck!

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Answer 4

First of all, please work in an area where your talents are. If you enjoy kids, work with kids. If you are shy, don't take on a job that requires you to be outgoing. Try volunteering somewhere that actually could turn into a job. Then they will see that you are dependable etc. BEing dependable these days is what really counts. Dependable workers are extremely hard to find. YOu don't have to tolerate icky working conditions either. Take your time, or your job stress can ruin your life.

Answer 5

best thing to do is to go to where you applied and ask in person about your application and what they thought. as far as wanting to help out thats great even if they don't want you to you should. my grades actually improved when I had a job because it gave me a sense of responsibility.

Answer 6

I know you want our stories, but be realistic, your much better off graduating and going to college on a scholarship than starting to work part-time. It isn't worth the stress or hassle.