what's the procedure for inter cast marriage when boy belong from Hindu family and girl from Muslim community

Question

the boy means I.
want to do a register marrige with the girl who belongs from muslim family.
their is an oppose for this from both family but I want to marry her please help me out by giving me the right procedure.

Answer 1

The only method to marry with a person of different religion in India by Court marriage as you call it is solemnized under the Special Marriage Act, 1954 all such marriages can take place between any two Indian citizens as well one Indian citizen with a foreigner irrespective of their religion, caste or creed, and you can say this is the secular form of marriage available in our country. Such a marriage is solemnized before the marriage officer/registrar usually D.C. deputy commissioner of the area (Sub registrar/SDM is the marriage officer/registrar only in case the already solemnized marriage under any other Act has to be registered) where both or any of the parties to such a marriage reside permanently or for at least one month. Cost of such a marriage is merely Rs90/- or as the rate prevalent in your area. Now how you proceed? Both the parties to the marriage file a joint application before the marriage officer along with individual affidavit attested by notary public specifying the age(boy 21yrs &girl 18yrs), place of residence, marital status(unmarried or divorcee as the case maybe), mental status(not idiot or not with unfit mind), not related to each other. Along with this you have to give proof of age , proof of residence(Passport, ration card, voters id card, PAN card, rent agreement, even in your case hostel certificate stated period of your stay) & the application of such a marriage should be witnessed by 3 independent adult persons, affix one photograph of each of the parties & all the 3 witnesses. You have made such an application/notice to the marriage officer in person along with all the 3 witnesses. On receiving such an application the marriage officer issues a month notice regarding the intended marriage & get such a notice affixed on the notice board out side his office, a copy of such notice is sent to the marriage officer under whose jurisdiction the other party lives, also a copy is to the individual parties address. After expiry of the period of notice a date is fixed on which all the persons parties to the marriage & 3 witnesses appear again before the marriage officer who declare them married & issue a certificate to this regard. Incase of any objections raised the marriage officer will settle these objections. Now what can be objections that can be raised? These can ONLY BE REGARDING THE CONDITIONS NECESSARY FOR SUCH MARIAGE & NOTHING ELSE. What are the conditions? As I stated above i.e. Age, martial status, mental status, prohibited relationship (related to each other by blood). Any objection regarding different religion is not taken into account. There is no provision regarding permission of the parents as the only factor here is the age of the parties to the marriage if they fulfill this criteria there is no such thing permission that is required in such marriage. The marriage officer shall not listen to the parents of the parties only if they object on the basis of religion of the parties so need not worry about this objection. This is the brief procedure I have told you here, incase you want any clarification you can ask.

Answer 2

In India the marriagable age of a boy is 21 and a girl 18. So any boy and girl who have completed the minimum age can legally marry and lead a married life without any problems. BUt in your case, you want to go ahead and marry your fiancee inspite of the opposition from both families. First of all I suggest you to find out a counsellor who can talk to your families and bring peace and try if it is possible to conduct an arranged marriage. Otherise you have many ways of getting married, one such thing is a registeed marriage. You can get married under the special marriage act, to know more about it please consult a lawyer or the sub registrar of your nearest registation office. I think the rule says that you have to inform the registration office one month in advance of the proposed date of marriage, They in turn put up a notice in the office seeking any one has any objection to the proposed marriage, Once the time is completed and no objection raised, the registrar can conduct your marriage and a certificate to this effect is issued. This is the rule. But look at the socio economic conditions of our society and see if you would be able to pull on without the help of the families. I suggest you both talk about it again and again and still you want to get married, I say, you go ahead. Wish you all the best in your life.

Answer 3

The first thing to do is run away from both families. Both Hindus and Muslims are known to kill their relatives for disobeying their parents in marriage.

Your best bet probably would be to go to some European Union country or USA. Get married there. And ask the authorities to let you stay there as refugees from your country.

If you can show some evidence that either you or your wife will likely be persecuted by your families, then this will be good enough reason for the authorities to grant you refugee status and let the two of you stay there.

Answer 4

How is this inter-caste marriage. Hmmm. They can go for Hindu or muslim marriage, or better, for marriage under Special Marriage Act.

Answer 5

That's trouble you asking for. Think long and hard about this. Why rush into something you'd probably regret later. Your parents' blessing is important but not necessary if you are mature adults. You would have 4 people whom you love very sad and angry. Why increase the tension between religious sectors. Wait a while. If you love your partner, it will be worth it. Good luck to both of you.

Answer 6

If u are in very good job and she is not-employed, bright chances are there for you...
also either you need to be circumcised to become a muslim or bring her to your community ..like changing names etc..
(just for the satisfaction of the families ) this is usual in South India ..

OKAY, dont waste time here reading this,
Think deep , atleast have five choices with you and select any one of them, remember the FIFTH choice is you and her are departing from each other mutually>>>>>

Answer 7

You can't marry a Muslim girl unless you become a Muslim too

if you want to be so just say : there is only one God and has no partners associated with HIM and Mohammed (PBUH) is his prophet.

if you became so you can Get married to her.

Answer 8

Very Simple!!!

Just revert back to Islam, Say there is only one God and has no partners associated with HIM and Mohammed (PBUH) is prophet.

Get married.

Answer 9

Watch movie BOMBAY...!

In that happens something similar to ur story..!