2007-04-08 05:19:46 · 6 answers · asked by bob p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
did u cheat on her?
if so, u have to tell her or she will act like this all time.
b/c she feels something is wrong and the only way to clear things is to tell her the thruth, u cheated or not
2007-04-08 05:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you can not I am sorry to say. it is nothing you can do or say to change her mind. Right now what you need to do is make sure you let her know your love. Find out why she feels she cannot trust you, and correct it soon, if you don't she will feel that you do not value her worth or love her enough to solve the problem.
Do not buy fancy gifts this is a sign of guilt, take her on a walk and talk about what she feels and needs, look into her eyes, very important always be truthful. Remember there may have been someone before you that may have cheated, and she is extra careful with you.
Trust is a very delicate emotion, it holds the very essence of a relationship together. If you love this woman get off this computer, hold her in your arms, and tell her she means the world to you and nothing else matters, but the breath of life she sends into your sole.
Well, I don't see you moving get up.
lisamarie
2007-04-08 05:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you cheating/thinking of cheating/treating her in a way you wouldn't want to be treated? If not, maybe she has some issues from the past. Trust is one of those things that is really hard to get back, so I suggest you open up to her totally as soon as possible; tell her everything she wants to know, no holds barred/listen to her concerns, and show empathy. Best of luck.
2007-04-08 05:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by Artemisia G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you cheated or not, in her mind you did. She had enough evidence to prove that to be the case for herself. You need to be an open book - open about accounts, phone messages, email etc. Offer to share the passwords to everything. People with nothing to hide, hide nothing. Start there.
2007-04-08 05:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You rolled the dice and they came up snake eyes. Next time make sure before you accuse someone. Only time can solve your problem, however if I were you I would just move on to someone new.
2007-04-08 05:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL BOB,
IF THEIR ISN'T TRUST IN THIS RELATIONSHIP NOW,THEN THE LIKELY HOOD OF THEIR EVER BEING TRUST ISN'T VERY GOOD. MOST PEOPLE THAT DON'T TRUST THEIR PARTNER,HAVE SECRETS OF THEIR OWN. YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THIS,MOVE ON,AND FIND SOMEONE THAT LOVES YOU AND TRUSTS YOU. BESIDES,DO YOU REALLY WANT TO GO THROUGH LIFE DEFENDING YOURSELF?
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR IN MY PRAYERS.
2007-04-08 05:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋