that once you no you have found the one before committing to her you have sex with random women to get it out of your system so you won't be tempted to cheat once you do commit to her?
2007-04-08 05:05:12 · 15 answers · asked by GoodGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are men who do this, however, it is a fallacy.
The need to sleep with another woman while you are in a monogamous relationship speaks to a hormone issue and a character issue.
If the man lacks the character to remain faithful and committed -- getting a "cheating session" in before getting married will accomplish nothing.
This feeble attempt is a last ditch effort to delude himself and his ego that he can handle the LONG-TERM COMMITMENT of marriage, when in fact, he can't!
He is delaying the inevitable and he mind as well find a divorce lawyer.
2007-04-08 05:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody is messing with your head sweetie.
I don't care who you are. Man or woman, If you truely fall in love with that person. It mean you have fallen in love and feel complete with that person. How on earth can you go around and get something out of your system when it was never there to begin with?
To lay someone else does not help you one bit. If your going to cheat before the ring I can garantee your going to be cheating with the ring. Have you not alrighty given the permission to do so?
2007-04-08 06:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's crazy and you know it. If your going to commit to somebody you don't go seeking out other women. That energy can be used on the one you want the commitment with. Come on man, show your serious, if your worried about cheating already don't commit.
2007-04-08 05:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Random sex won't work at all.
What if you find out that you like eating twinkies from between someones toes? ARE YOU SURE that your new wife is going to like it?
IMHO (and experience) Sexually unhappy couples ...cheat period. Just because you do or do not know what the grass in the other yard "really" looks like does not make this less likely.
2007-04-08 05:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO once we find the one we are fully commited. What happens is when the woman decides after the marriage no more sex then the problems arrive.
2007-04-08 05:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have random sex then, and I do know. So maybe it's true.
2007-04-08 05:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We never get it out of our system.
2007-04-08 05:13:16 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved her you would be focus on getting her into your system
2007-04-08 05:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by sk8ingskarz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not. If he cheats once, will do it again.
2007-04-08 05:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,if you truly love someone you will not have to do that.
2007-04-08 05:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by didomidoxa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋