we lasted about 10 minutes and at the end she had no blood at all and i was kind of dissapointed thinking she lied to me but she said she wasn't and i just didn't know what to say or what to think, now i don't know if i insulted her or...... ?
2007-04-08 05:04:38 · 17 answers · asked by geobiker 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Your chances are 50/50.
Many girls didn't have sex with a man before but for various reasons their hymens are broken.
But women are also very good actresses so she might as well lied to you.
If you really like the girl and she is cool otherwise, don't try to investigate, take the first option and forget about it.
Disbelief, interrogations and following resentments won't bring any good to your relationship.
2007-04-08 05:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that her hymen could have broken long before you two even had sex for the first time. Girls today are active and use tampons so it's possible that riding a bike or using a tampon could have torn the hymen therefore this would be the reason why it didn't break. It could also be that you technically didn't "pop her cherry" this time. I bled only a little my first time. The real pain and bleeding came the second time I had sex. Don't give her a hard time for it, it's not her fault. Her body is just a little different. If she does experience pain or discomfort at all, be nice and give her some tylenol. She'll appreciate the gesture and know that you care. :-)
2007-04-08 05:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by kaw0410 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she play sports, or cheer leader? Has she fingered her self or used a dildo of some sort? Has she ever fallen or jumped from a hight?
Come on dude, don't be a d*ck head. If all your looking for is the red juice buy a chicken, I've heard they bleed pretty good if you do them right.
May be this girl would be better off with out you!!!
Either you do not trust your self, or maybe you just have a warp sense of the truth. As a guy you really get me pissed, I can just imagine how the girl must of felt after she let you jump her bones and then dumped your problems onto her.
How old are you 12yrs you sure sound like it!!!
2007-04-08 05:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason some girls bleed during their first time is that their hymen has been broken. (This is a thin membrane over the entrance to the vagina.) Not all girls bleed because there are many ways this may have already been broken during the course of her life - bike riding, Tampax, etc!
Apologise at once....this might take flowers, chocolates, grovelling... ...you've got some making up to do, boy!
2007-04-08 05:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every female bleeds the first time she has sex, so she may have been hurt when you thought she was lying. Apologize and explain you didn't know all the facts. Trust is the most important part of any relationship.
2007-04-08 05:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must trust her if she says that she is not lying to you unless you know for a fact that she has been with others. she must feel very hurt right now because you practically acused her of not being a virgin. trust me, NOT all females bleed the first time. i didn't and i was accused of the same. it hurts to know that the person you're being intimate with does not trust you. APOLOGIZE at once and believe her if she says she was a virgin at the time.
2007-04-08 05:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her some flowers - rent a chick flick and apologize. Not every girl bleeds the first time - I didn't and my boyfriend thought the same thing. She'll understand if you tell her what you thought and how you were wrong.
2007-04-08 05:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like all and sundry else at it rather is asserting, call 911, do no longer worry concerning to the reg. dr. merely call 911 or in case you may force and have a thank you to bypass then bypass directly to the wellbeing facility. NOW!!!!! additionally, positioned her in very heat water, it rather is think to decelerate the bleeding. Hurry earlier something worse than her bleeding occurs. GL and save us published
2016-10-21 08:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's depend on. There are many things to lose the virgin before have sex, for example she played sport that is serious or she got an accident.
Maybe she was very happy when she had sex with you because her vagina could flow so much mucus while she was very happy when she had sex.
2007-04-08 05:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by Diana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't bleed my 1st time but i did about the 4th time after though.
I have heard that Tampons can break too.I don't know if that's try.Maybe you did a good job inpleasing her so she didn't need to bleed.
2007-04-08 05:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by Lil CeeCee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋