is it possible to love more than one woman at the same time?

Answer 1

We're humans with human thoughts, capabilities & reasoning power.....I certainly think it's possible to "love" more than one person at the same time....if we allow ourselves to....

we have more power over our feelings than most of us actually realise....we may be married for years & have a very loving partner with very few issues yet somehow still find ourselves "lacking" in some way. Along comes another whom we get to know in the most innocent of ways....before we know where we are we're falling head over heels in "love"

They seem to have the "missing ingredient" that, without us even being fully aware, have been searching for all this time.....suddenly the grass on the other side seems a lot greener, but we're married to a lovely partner & just couldn't handle the guilt of leaving them, plus when push comes to shove it's actually quite difficult to choose between them because each fills a certain need we [feel] we have.

I think that we all control where we're going with our lives...or we should anyway....if we have control rather than just reacting to what goes on around us then we won't be falling in love with 2 people at the same time....but if we just allow ourselves to be lead by life like sheep then we can fall in "love" with more than one person......it comes down to control, commitment & loving someone....which mustn't be confused with being in love......

Answer 2

Yes it certainly is possible to love more than one woman (or man) at the same time but the love you have for them will be based on something different.

You can only be 'in love' with one person at a time and still feel love to some degree for the other.

If its a case where you have to choose between the two, then let your heart be your guide and be with the one you are 'in love' with and hopefully who is the person you want to feel in love with forever, otherwise you will never feel truly happy within yourself and your heart if you don't follow your heart and towards the person your heart guides you to.

I would also give this answer to anyone if they were in a situation where they are married but have someone else.

When it comes to love, you should follow your heart.

Answer 3

Many people believe love is so exclusive and unique that even entertaining the thought that you're in love with two people means you're not really in love with either. But that's not what I think. The idea that love has to be confined to only one person is a myth, plain and simple. The truth is, most of us don't want to entertain the possibility that our love can extend to two individuals at the same time, because it's scary to imagine such a confusing state of being. Alas, our hearts have a lot more capacity for affection than we give them credit for — or are brave enough to recognize.

Think about it: We can love more than one of our children and parents at any given time, and appreciate each of them for his or her own special attributes. In the same way, different romantic partners offer different things. Let's say you meet someone who is loyal, totally smitten, and offers you personal and economic stability. His good heart and good intentions make you love him. He's what you want. But then you meet a poet. He is soulful, gifted, romantic and impractical. He's the epitome of every romance novel hero. You become friends, you're attracted to him, you dream of him at night. He's what you want.

Impossible? No. Impractical? Yes. And that's why we try to figure out who's the "real" love of our life, so we can end the ambiguity. Of course, the answer might be that both people are "the real thing." Honestly, it's hard to find everything you want in one person. Two mates can be wonderful in completely different ways.

Of course, if you love two different people, you don't have to act on it. Say you spot your old flame at your high school reunion and realize that the relationship embers still smolder. You, a happily married woman, are shocked at your reaction. Well, you needn't be. We hold a special place in our heart for first loves — the ones who got away. It doesn't say anything bad about your marriage; it says only that you had — and have — something special with someone from your past. You can acknowledge that and still be true to your vows.

If you are deeply attached to more than one person, the real question is: Can you be happy just knowing your heart swells with so much love, or do you need to get involved with both individuals — a situation that is likely to prove explosive, even destructive? Your heart is powerful, but your mind can triumph. Once you understand your emotions, it's up to you to decide what to do about them.

Answer 4

yes its possible to love to people at the same time but its not possible to be IN love with two people.

Answer 5

i suppose you could but if this happens you cant make any comitment to ny of them or you'll soon be cheating.

if you are happy with loving 2 women make sure they both know about this.

if you want to comit to one, you have to move well away from ther other. comitment is serious and dont involve 3 people in a relationship.

if you cant choose, then tell them both and the one who aint happy with you seeing 2 women, let go.

or if you are married on the other hand and you've fallen for someone else, you should tell yuor wife and split. dont hurt her

Answer 6

love is good when it is selfless,service,,and pure affection behind it. Generally male above 50,,choosing a girl below 20 for house maid,,is not in good taste,in Indian cultural & moral standard

and a living wife may not allow you to have her inside the house as maid,,more so when u have grown up sons

Answer 7

It is possible to love two women at the same time - but it is not possible to be *in* love with two women at the same time.

If you are truly, totally, ultimately *in* love with someone, you could not feel those same emotions for another person.

If you feel the exact same way about two people, you are not in love with either of them, but in something else.

Answer 8

Yes, but each in a different way. One for their personality, the other for the nice things they do for you. Hopefully you are lucky enough to get the two in one package.
Have a happy day!

Answer 9

hmmm, i think so. I like 3 guys but maybe just love 2, n ot sure really :( theres fierce competition out there so u better make ur mind up b4 they're both taken.

Answer 10

If you don't go too far,yes ,it's possible.But in that situation,you don't really feel love for them,you feel attraction and pleasure to be with...hoping to choose the best of all of them.your heart willbe for the best of the best.

Enjoy the time, life is only one!!