2007-04-08 03:53:12 · 20 answers · asked by selvin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hunny...when the bad days outweigh the good ones...its time to move on....and thats what it sounds like to me!
2007-04-08 03:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by dolphybrat 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
All depends on the problem. Most marriages can be saved only if they want to but divorce being an easy cure-all answer, everyone is quick to jump on it. The only thing thats coming from divorces nowadays is very rich divorce attorneys who by the way are the only ones happy about your divorce. So before deciding on divorce as the only way, think if youre marriage is worth saving or not, then figure out how to go about it. Good luck
2007-04-08 11:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking about divorce when you are married, then something isn't right. I'm not trying to say that in a bad way, but maybe something needs to be talked about between the couple. Before the person makes their decision, make sure that is what they want :) I'm sorry if I didn't help. Good Luck.
2007-04-08 10:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, have you talked to your spouse about this? Maybe you could see a marriage counselor, or your minister or priest.How long have you been married.? The grass isn't always greener on the other side. It takes a lot for a marriage to work.If after seeking advice and really trying to make your marriage work and you still feel the same way, then I guess you should file for divorce.
2007-04-08 11:09:21 · answer #4 · answered by darcy r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you're unhappy and you're looking at divorce and thinking about it a lot then the answer would have to be yes.
But because going ahead and doing something, try thinking through the problems you're having and see whether you'd like to work them out or whether it's just too far down the road.
Good luck
2007-04-08 11:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by oh lala 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, if the marriage is bad, then by all means divorce.
2007-04-08 10:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by rosie768 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! I see that the women are chiming in to support you, and this is typical.
The only moral reason for a divorce is if one of the partners is unfaithful.
I personally would like to outlaw divorce for any other reason. Then, if one person was unfaithful and the partner divorced him or her, the loyal partner would receive everything, and pre-nuptial agreements to the contrary would be either illegal or rendered null and void.
2007-04-08 10:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by Joe C 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes, if you think of divorce more then you do loving the person then its pretty much over.
2007-04-08 10:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. Tell the enemy to back off, get out of your head and take his filthy hands off your marriage. Whatever you are going through I'm sure you can work it out. Seek God for guidence. I stongly believe in marriage and I dislike divorce.
God Bless you and your marriage.
2007-04-08 10:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by wisdom_women 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you married for better for worse. Stop sitting there thinking about divorse and go get your marraige the help it needs. I dont understand why people are willing to spend so much time and effort into fixing everything else, but they dont want to spend anytime doing maitenence or fixing up their relationship.
2007-04-08 11:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
look 10 years down the road. does it look any better ? .....or will you be thinking about it 100 times a day ? Life is too short to live it miserable.
2007-04-08 10:59:51 · answer #11 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋