Do you care about your spouse?

Question

I saying this because I saw a couple yesterday and they looked like if they did'nt care for one and other.

Then I tought to my self that it might be possible for a couple to stay togheter because they used to be that way.

I even tought it could happen, that people stay in couple because they want to be in couple no matter if they care or not about their spouse...

They where not fighting they simply looked like they did'nt care for one and other. They both acted like if they were alone, or almost.

And since I see them often I can tell they are often this way...

Answer 1

Why did you think they didn't care for one another? If they were showing disdain for one another that's one thing. But, if they simply weren't falling all over each other, that doesn't necessarily imply that they don't care. After couples have been together for a while, that infatuation phase wears off. Their love becomes a strong bond that is not marked by butterflies in the stomach, but rather a lasting commitment and mutual trust. And yes, I'm sure some couples stay together because it's the easiest thing to do.

Answer 2

There are a million answers depending on each person you ask. Some people maybe stay because they afraid of being alone, or becuse of abuse... Any time when one or both people in a relationship are unhappy and want to go, but somthing keeps them, chances are the home will be a very sollum one and the elephant in the room will force them out.
Tho on a lighter side, the couple you saw, sure they may have been fighting, but that dosent mean they are unhappy in general... maybe he forgt to pick up the laundry, or she is PMSing and being a...uuu... not happy girl. But inreality, in an hour those 2 will be apologizing and even as they exchange the heated words the love they have for that person never wavers... only there patiance.

*I love Mine*

Answer 3

I know, it's really sad huh? My husband and I..(20 years together) see that often when we go out for coffee or lunch. Couples who don't engage in conversation, they just sit across from one another and eat their meal. It's so heart-breaking.

We talk often, and make each other laugh often. It's the best medicine for any relationship. Of course there's work involved. But my theory is this...if you can talk about anything with a person in your life shouldn't it be someone who you share a home, children, intimacy with? My husband can tell me anything and visa versa. If a person puts as much effort into their marriage as they did lets say at work, I think anyone can have achieve and hold onto a solid relationship.

Answer 4

Well yes I care about my husband. But if you asked me do I love him? Well that would be no. When your married so much stuff happens like for instance, the marriage starts out nice then the next thing you no your doing a life time sentence. then here comes What you can do. and What you can't.This marriage crap is over rated. Imean come on we all had parents just cuz we get married doesn;t mean we need another daddy or mommy figure. Right?

Answer 5

yes I love my husband very much we have been married for over 30 years, at times you will see us walking together holding hands, and the next time either he or I will walk 10 steps ahead of the other it all depends on what is going on in our life at that time i really dont think to many people stay together any more if they are unhappy with the divorce rate as high as it is, most just walk away and not try to work things out

Answer 6

I adore my husband
He is a joy
I enjoy his company, his humour and the decent man he is.
I cuddle him in public and hold his hand.
I wouldnt be with him if I didn't feel this way.
I suppose for some people the logisitics of being divorced is just too hard. For others it is easier to stay together. Some people just don't display they way they feel.
Perhaps we shouldnt assume how people feel just by looking at them.

Answer 7

it really is all the small belongings you do this count number!! those are the little issues I do..... listen even as he talks( don't be quick to throw in my opinion except mandatory. It keeps the peace) help him(emotionally and trust in him even as he needs you to have his back in disaster or family individuals - I rub his ft/ shoulders after I see he seems drained and sore, -get him a blanket if he's sleepy and cover him over, -make him a fantastic meal, -supply him lovin' centred on him, even as he would not anticipate it, ***get such as his family individuals(makes his life a good purchase a lot less complicated), -supply up the television even as i know something he fairly needs to visual show unit is on, - once in a lengthy time period If i'm on the shop i'll %. him up a touch something a manage or per chance a blouse, socks in simple terms because -seem staggering even as he comes domicile( he feels beautiful wow she receives all dulled up for me she loves me), -I continuously be sure if i'm getting up from the settee or leaving the room to get myself something I ask him if he could like something besides or in simple terms wonder him, -I continuously renowned even as he comes domicile or maybe as he leaves with a hug and a kiss to instruct I take excitement in him and all his exertions **I continuously praise him round his acquaintances (it really is difficult on them in case you're insulting them in the front of others how are you going to sense important or valued. ** supply him area if he's feeling moody do not pry or you're in for a wrestle and per chance some hurtful words. What is going round comes round i'm an organization believer in that !

Answer 8

It can get that way. I have been in a few relationships myself and sometimes you just stay in a relationship because you are so used to it. I'm sure they care about each other but not in a way one might expect...

Answer 9

Sometimes couples have to stay together because they have had kids and it might be too difficult to leave one another and they just stay together for the kids, or maybe they might not be used to being apart and r too scared to break up

Answer 10

Yes I care about my spouse. I love him.
I think sometime people stay together because they are used to it and are afraid of being on thier own.