I was in touch with this guy for like 3 weeks before we first met. He seemed to be really interested, even saying so. He showed every single sign of being attracted and when we were departing on the first date, he was too unwilling to leave, as he put it directly. I also asked him if we were to meet again and the answer was: FOR SURE.
Later that night, he sent me a message saying that he kinda liked me. The following evening I called him and he was busy. So he called back like 4 hours later and we talked for like 10 mins or so. He again mentioned meeting up again.
But since then, which was 2 days ago, we have not been in touch. Now, the question is, should i keep in touch back with him? I know he's kinda busy even at home. So, I don't really want to disturb him and appear too clingy. Also, I don't want to seem too indifferent. What should I do? Should I call him up to arrange a second date? Or should I wait for him to keep back in touch again?
2007-04-07 21:21:59 · 16 answers · asked by Antonio 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well guys, thanks for the answers.
I have always had this question on my mind. If everything sticks to the idea: Don't get in touch, if he's interested, he WILL, then practically, nobody will call anybody... Don't u think so?
2007-04-07 22:21:02 · update #1
just be calm about it guys dont say they like you just for the hell of saying it so if he likes you then he will call guys do get busy and im sure hes just as eger to talk to you as you are him so yeh just wait he'll call if he dosent call in a week then call him because hes proberly gotten caught up with things so yeh good luck
2007-04-07 21:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by Bluetail 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you said on the first date, he was too unwilling to leave. Hwvr, he remained silent for 2 day. For all you know you know, hes kind of a fast to hot and fast to cool guy. Could have done the same thing to other people too. Move on. Maybe , you should expose yourself more often to avoid getting hurt.
2007-04-08 04:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by Vico 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say wait for him to call you. But he might be thinking the same thing, and then neither of you call, and you might miss out on a really great thing. So, if you haven't from him by Wednesday, give him a ring.
2007-04-08 05:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by Radiant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is a rather complex dance in which none of the next steps are known to us, yet we must make as well as take them. Call him in another day or two. Be cheerful and polite. Don't press and don't cling like unto Saran Wrap!!!! That's the worst thing you could do!!. Well, the worst thing would be to get this guys name tattooed to your butt cheeks for sh1ts and giggles, yet I digress.
2007-04-08 04:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to wait. Like you said, you don't want to seem too clingy; and besides that you now for sure when he calls that hes interested. Good luck:)
2007-04-08 04:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by oldladygamer18 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey call him. i am in the same situation and things are really hard for me to be in touch with everyone. i love my girl but work makes me SO busy that i forget to call her. she is understanding and she usually calls me.
if u like the guy call him again. and arrange a second date. he will call u but it might take sometime since he seems to busy everywhere. try adjusting . might help u in Ur relationship
2007-04-08 04:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen to Roger Moore... Wait three days, thats the rule.
2007-04-08 04:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by Reece 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the next move is his. If you keep calling him he will back away from you.
2007-04-08 08:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give it a week, so that you can say hey i haven't heard from you in a while? because two days just isn't that long
2007-04-08 04:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Katie*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm...i think wait at least maybe a day or two more. if nothing, then call him up. but, what do i know? thats just what i think.
2007-04-08 04:25:33 · answer #10 · answered by smichaels2006 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋