Is having kids worth making all the sacrifices it entails?
2007-04-07 21:19:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes!
2007-04-07 21:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Speaking as a mother of two, I wouldn't change anything. I was ready to have children, when I did, and I don't regret it one bit. I think from someone else's point of view, like a younger person, who has no kids, it may be hard to understand, but once you've given birth to a smaller version of you, and hold the baby for the first time, everything falls into place, and there is that love that you've never experienced before, pouring into this tiny being, that is yours!
I think you need to be totally ready to have children, and know ahead of time, the sacrifices you need to make, so that you're mentally and physically ready to take on motherhood, or fatherhood.
When I was pregnant, I used to ask myself if I did the right thing, and at the time, when I was about four months pregnant, I was scared, at first, but it wasn't until I felt the baby kick, inside me, for the first time, that I knew this was meant to be, and I was completely ready for it.
I have made a lot of sacrifices, but they were intended, and everything happens for a reason. I know now, that having children has made me a better, stronger person, spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically. I wouldn't change a thing!!
2007-04-08 04:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by argamedius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is NO way. It's amazing what having a child does to you! Of course, it's worth all the sacrifices - which bring all the joy!
2007-04-08 09:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having a little child that lights up when you enter a room, hugs you and gives you smooches and hangs on to your leg is one of the best times of your life. Then you get to do it all over again with grandchildren--have the kids, if you think they have cramped your style you need to take a close look at you.
2007-04-08 04:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by lilabner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i asked my mum she say's that with two teens it is a constant test but the moments that you do have pay of for al the sacrafices and weight and pain gained in pregnancy. Adn when there little it is the best thing that you could ever do
2007-04-08 04:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by freedom with the horses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! If I didnt have my daughter, I wouldnt have turned my life around to be more responsible. I know so many people who have no direction in life because they just dont care. My kids helped me go further in life.
2007-04-08 04:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by Laurellamags 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Having kids is the best thing in the world.
2007-04-08 04:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i think once you have kids you lose the ability to think what would it be without them and realise life is perfect with them!!!
2007-04-08 04:22:59 · answer #8 · answered by ballarinababyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no kids, and my life has turned out just fine. Pretty darn good, in fact.
2007-04-08 04:22:46 · answer #9 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
happyness to me is my kids
cant really go after a very hypothical quastion
suppose if
2007-04-08 04:23:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋