I have recently begun having sex with my boyfriend. He isn't very long but is slightly wide. Because I wish not to become pregnant we usually stop intercourse before he climaxes. Invariably he comes back in a few minutes wanting more ( I love my man). The problem is that when we begin again I am extremely tender and have pain if he trys to enter me. I do not have this pain in the beginning only if we try again. I have researched various conditions and vaginismus seems to be the closet to what I am experiencing, only it doesn't happen on the first try. Has anyone else experienced this and are there any suggestions as to what we can do about this problem.
Thanks.
2007-04-07 20:10:36 · 4 answers · asked by Future MD 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Vaginismus is a disorder that prevents any type of penetration. You do not have this. Contact your doctor.
2007-04-08 04:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by mypurdy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know for sure if it is vaginismus or a more broader range of pain in that area: vulvodynia is to get in touch with your dr to evaluate what the problem could be.
I have vulvodynia and yes it does cause me a great deal of pain at times.
To learn more about vulvodynia check out: http://www.vulvarhealth.org
2007-04-07 23:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by sokokl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably lubricant can help? There is a kind of lubricant that made of natural herbs, it is call Manjakani Gel, besides giving sexual pleasure, it also tone and tighten vaginal muscles.
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2007-04-10 02:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could possibly be becasue the outside of your vagina is too dry. Try using a lubricant.
2007-04-08 10:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Lex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋