[history]i recently found out my girlfriend of 6 months was 2 months pregnant. I really dont see a future with her at all. When it comes down to it we just dont click. Now she is pregnant and i dont know if i should stay with her for the sake of my child, or go and do my own thing, and be the best father i can be to my child? but i worry about her using the baby against me(keeping me from being with it). all i want to do is be super cool with her for our child, but i dont think she wants that,I think she wants me. [present time]]We got into an argument the night before, about using protection in the future, she says she doesnt enjoy them,i told her i wasnt going to touch her again without one. This morning she told me to leave her alone, she wasnt having my child and she was moving out of state.not less then 2 hours later she tells me shes sorry and she doesnt want to lose me or the baby. Im confused.. should i start looking to establish custody? stay for my child? im lost!!!!
2007-04-07 18:53:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It has been going on for ever the girl knows she doesn't have you and the only way is to get preg. on purpose in order to trap the guy into marrying her. Most guys don't want to think the girl he is with would do a nasty thing like that.All a guy needs to do to find out what kind of girl he has is look to the mother,sometimes it could be the dad but 9 times out of 10 it's the mother you look to.What ever you do don't marry this girl she will make your life a living hell.I'm sorry she is preg. and that this ***** is going to be in your life for a very long time.I have never heard a woman say that she does not like for a guy to wear a rubber for one thing it feels the same unless she is big and it just slides in and out if that is the case then she has been with a lot of guys.If you plan on trying for custody don't let her no and when the baby is born go right to a lawyer don't wait because this girl is very clever she has trick that you would never dream of.Never underestimate a female when she wants something.Ask your mother she'll no what this girl is trying to pool on you.Please be careful I hate to see a back stabbing you no what bring a good guy down.
2007-04-07 19:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't need to be a husband to be a good father. if u know u'r responsibilities it will erase ur worries because u'r child will grow up someday and will be matured enough to understand you. as for keeping a marriage well in the first place u knew how u agree to keep the relationship but if things wont work out well u better think about ur self too. think ur life in the future if u still would want to be with her. a mother who's willing to abandon her child?! who's the right mind specially a mother will do that. she don't even think why protection is very essential for building a family. she's conceited girl and i don't think she's worth keeping.
2007-04-08 02:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by iris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to be with someone to be good father. Just make sure you take care of your child. If she tries to pull that card and keep you away from your child as long as your doing what your supposed to do you shouldnt have any problems.
2007-04-11 19:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by mike gulf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, i know u don't want to feel bad, but i went thru the same with my x. (even tho i'm the woman, i wld neva deny ne1 from seeing their child)
-we r not together n i'm with someone else now...n he's been with me since my son was 2mths old. -my x wanted nothing to do with my baby...
-u can't stay with her if u don't love her...n when u tell her that n if she decides not to keep the baby...it really has nothing to do with you because it is her body...
sometimes in life u have to give up everything,even tho it hurts so much....
good luck.
p.s.in the end u will just end up hurting both ur child n her...n u don't want that do u.
2007-04-08 02:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she is pregnant, or is she trying to pull your strings? Go for joint custody if you don't love her.
2007-04-08 02:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by #1barnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋