2007-04-07 18:21:46 · 20 answers · asked by sunflower 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And? I'm married. They are my Ex for a reason, and I'm married to my husband for a reason too.
2007-04-07 18:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean?? Like.. hasn't been around and now reappeared? Or do you mean a 3-way or what? If you mean you two just seen each other again or the ex. shows interest in you I can tell you exactly what to do!;
Tell the ex to get lost- you guys FAILED at being together...you are married, you promised and took a vow to someone...that (I'm sure) didn't include "unless so-and-so comes around". The human nature in all of us sticks to what it is farmiliar with- of course that is including our past. Why did you break up? Was there problems...
If you mean something else- Enjoy.
2007-04-08 01:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I wouldn't let my ex-lover comes into my married life, it's so wrong!!!
Tell him/her OUT!!!
2007-04-08 01:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by PRLadyDama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's definitely no room in married life for an X lover. What if it was your mate's x lover entering???
2007-04-08 01:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will B responsible for my married life.
I'll tell my ex-lover that our puppy love has GAME OVER.
Move on !! (be firm)
2007-04-08 01:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by amichubby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself exactly what your ex lover is doing in your married life.. and you should be able to answer that question yourself...
2007-04-12 01:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by the critic!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flash my wedding ring set, a big smile and pictures of all three of my kids. if he smiles back and say congratulations, then all is good. but if he seems upset...he can go screw himself. nothing would piss me off more then an ex-lover coming back to me for a booty call after 2 years or more.
2007-04-08 02:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The decision on who comes into your life is yours, not your ex's.
2007-04-08 01:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats depends on what they came into your married life to do. if its to be friends just remind them that you are married and it needs to stay that way but if its to cause problems you need to show them the "exit" out of your life.
2007-04-08 01:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no what ifs for me my ex wouldn't be that stupid to even try and talk to me because he would get decked but hey it's different for everyone.
2007-04-08 02:23:39 · answer #10 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋