what do you thik about devorce?

Question

I am married , I got three children and I scare not even listning the word (devorce)

Answer 1

It some instances it's the best solution to an impossible situation.

Answer 2

First off you need to learn how to spell. There is a little "check spelling" tab in the conner that you can hit. So its easier for nice people taking the time to answer you question to understand.

Divorce is for the weak couples that should have never got married in the first place. If you truly love this person your going to at least try and goto a couples counselor. Before even thinking about doing that. Your also being very selfish because your kids will always think its their fault that this happened. SO TALK to each other... I would recommend listening to "Men are from Mars, Woman are from Venus". You will understand each other a lot after that.

Answer 3

My parents are divorced and even though it was tough for me to understand and hard because my dad put us in the middle, it was the best thing my mom ever did. My dad didn't support her, respect her, love her, listen to her, in the ways she needed to be. And when she left she found a man to do that. Your children may see what you don't and they understand a lot more than what parents give them credit for. Divorce can be hard, but its a divorce of the parents not the family. My dad will always be my dad, and my mom will always be mom. I am just glad she got out of a bad situation. Now that I am married, I don't want to get divorced, but if I am not getting what I need, then I need to leave, whether I have kids or not. Its all about respect. If your partner doesn't respect you then they are not respecting the relationship or you. I just hate how kids get caught in the middle. That is always the worse part of it all. It really shows how a person is to use his kids to get what he wants.

Answer 4

Divorce should be a last resort especially when children are involved, unless the children are in danger or your spouse is abusing you mentally or physically. Divorce brings out the absolute worst in people. If at all possible try to work it out, sometimes you can't and you have to no choice but to end it. Please try everything you can try first before thinking about divorce.
Good Luck

Answer 5

Divorce is the best thing that ever happened to me. My first wife tried to kill me, but I survived it. I divorced her, and was happy to get rid of her. We had dated each other for three years, and I thought the girl was for me. We were only married for nine months.
My second wife was a blind date, and we dated for only three months, and then got married. We have been married 44 years now.

Answer 6

you have to ask your self can your marriage work or is it really over. lots of people get a divorce. but some stay for the kids but it depends on how bad the marriage is .if it's really bad it could affecting the kid and the best thing is a divorce .but you don't have to stop being a father .

Answer 7

I think it is probably one of the hardest things that anyone can go through. I am going through it after 30 years of marriage and there has been nothing harder for me since I didnot see it coming.

Answer 8

It's a hard thing to go through. but you gotta do what you gotta do. many parents try to bare though a relationship for the children, but sometimes it doesn't work out well, and the kids gotta let you do what you gotta do.

Answer 9

I have no comment about "devorce" since I don't know what it is...or were you meaning DIVORCE? I'm happy with mine.

Answer 10

A family is a partnership of life. Divorce ends it, and so ends your family, your dreams, your memories, accomplishments, and future.