i make a question before about to lie of your age .. and the reason is .. my friend have a 30 years old and she ask me for advice and I dont know what to say... for me is not normal find something interesting in someone really younger than me, (7 years are a lot of difference , dont you think) or maybe i have wrong idea so ...can you help me ! and please forgive me if a write bad english :)
2007-04-07 16:11:37 · 29 answers · asked by pbaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its never wrong for a man to date a younger woman, why would it be wrong for a woman to date a younger man? I had a fabulous time with a 23 year old, great converstations, so much in common, he was mature,......most of the time and he wasn't ........he was f--ing fabulous. That was a year ago and he was 15 years younger than me.....heck, I was putting off a 23 yr old fireman for the last few weeks....I need to stop getting booty calls from 20 somethings!
The love of my life is 5 years younger, do you have a problem with that too? The thing is people mature at different rates, people find themselves at different rates, to have age a factor is to limit ones possibilities. Why would we want to put limits on something so important.
2007-04-07 16:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not unheard of for a 30 yr old woman to date a 23
year old man. There is nothing morally, legally or
ethically wrong with it. But if a 30 yr old woman feels like
she must lie about her age in order to date a 23 year
old man, then the 30 yr old woman must have a problem
with it....in other words she has her own doubts.
My advice to her would be, if she has doubts, then she needs
to trust her instincts and not date the man. You are right,
seven years is a lot of difference, and the two just might
not be able to find any common ground or interests.
Again, the simple fact that she has her own doubts about
it is reason enough for her not to date the man. Advise
her to trust her own feelings. If she did not have doubts,
she would not be asking you.
2007-04-07 16:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by Northwest Womps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, No because if your friend really likes this person then age doesn't really matter. It shouldn't matter. 7 years isn't a whole lot. My mom is 34 and my dad is 57 and they are very happy together, so 7 years shouldn't be bad at all. But once again age doesn't matter, the feelings do. So give it a try and see if it works out!
2007-04-07 16:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the 23 year old is mature, then sure. But most likely the 23 year old will be at a different point in his life than your 30 year old friend.
2007-04-07 16:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by MigrainBoy161 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is logical for women of different ages to hang out together or be friends. Some mature faster than others and can hang with older ones and some are immature and can be cool with younger ones. It depends on you though, no one says you have to be comfortable around her. But be honest, don't lead her on pretending to be her friend, be upfront with her and tell her with the age difference, you feel funny gving her advice or anything. You do what makes YOU feel right.
2007-04-07 16:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ten years difference ?? Not a big deal, especially in a field like medicine, where you don't get outta school until you're 25 or more. But, like you said, you have a couple of years of hard work ahead of you, so keep an eye on him, but keep an eye on your goal, also. If you get lucky, could have both. If he's got a clear goal, he'll see you are working towards something also - Another common area !!
2016-05-19 22:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really nothing wrong about a 7 year age difference if the people involved don't have an issue..... It can work out and has many times with other....
2007-04-07 16:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 years really isn't that bad, my parents are only 6 years apart, and my friends parents are 20 years apart! Is it cause shes the girl and shes the older one? Its kind of an old-fashioned thought that many people still believe "guy should be older" its never really mattered to me about age, if she is interested and hes interested age shouldn't matter (unless she and he were minors but they are not)
2007-04-07 16:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by his.lover2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't matter, my boyfriend is 8 years younger than me! He will be 30 soon. It was a little awkward at first as we worked together, but 3 years later it doesn't matter at all!
2007-04-07 16:17:53 · answer #9 · answered by sunnygirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she and the man are comfortable with it, and they can find things to talk about it, it's fine. My boyfriend is 4 years older than me and we couldn't be happier. Age is only a number. (reasonably, I'm not saying it's okay for a 30 year old man to be with a 14 year old.)
2007-04-07 16:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋