do you like getting together with a friend at a time or in a group?

Question

i am nineteen and i'm not into the normal teenage hanging out ways...like clubbin etc.. although if i trust my friends ill see them all together but only someotimes..although
i prefer taking a friend to coffee, etc what aboutyou?
ps-i think its b/c i am an introvert

Answer 1

i like it both ways... but it depends...

i always keep myself i.e my feelings at top priority before / at the time of hanging out...

what i mean by this is that... the group / the individual.. with whom i am interacting should b of my taste.. he/ she should be good.. i.e, with positive attitude, non-domineering... and willingness to listen... as i also try to b the same..

but, if it is not so... if they r going to crush my confidence, insult me, bully me.. by invading into my soul... well.. then, its not worth it...

its better to be an introvert... than to go and sell ur soul in the name of extrovertism...

wait, wait... have patience.. u will find ur kind of friends... it will take time.. as to search among 6 billion people on this planet is not easy... u will meet.. god has created friends for everyone.. that is why there r groups everywhere... groups of like minded gangsters form a company... group of like minded politicians form a party / alliance... group of businessmen sign pacts and dealings or come together and face competition...

' Birds of same feather, flock together' is no ordinary saying...

so, my advice to u is... being an introvert is not a disease... wait .. have patience... sometimes u have to be an introvert... sometimes an extrovert.....

but, all the while u have to be the one who is deciding..

good luck

Answer 2

Personally, I prefer one friend at a time generally. But that's partly because my friends seem to hate each other. Really though, it's much easier to have a good conversation with fewer people.

But occasional group outings can be really fun too.

Answer 3

Love it when we are all out together and the conversation never stops.......just love it !

However, nothing wrong with one on one.

Live a little !