2007-04-07 13:48:58 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer S 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Because you are trying to be something you aren't. Just relax and be yourself. Sounds korney, but it really works.
2007-04-07 13:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by imgma2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people look for friends in the wrong places.
BE a friend to an acquaintenance and you will acquire a FRIEND. Remember the person doesnt have to be your own age group or share all your same interests and viewpoints. We grow when we make friends with people that are different then we are.
Be interested in other people and they will become interested in you. See a need and fulfill it. Sometimes people was just waiting for someone else to come to them.
2007-04-07 20:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by yackycritter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think a lot of it has to do with putting yourself out there and trusting someone with details of your life. I can count all the really good friends I have on one hand. Its hard for me to make true friends also. I don't like being vulnerable. I have lots of acquaintances, people that I like being with and hanging out with, but none of them I'd consider letting into my circle...its too much risk involved.
2007-04-07 20:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by usmcmama826 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people are for the most part, selfish evil creatures...
You just haven't found someone who feels that the expenditure of their time and effort will be worth whatever the heck it is that you would benefit them with by your presence in return.
Friends are just people who mutually use one another and compete with one another for control... It is yet another one of lifes Infinite games.
Friends are strange for me... Every one of them I have left are at a distance... But yet we are as close as twins. We don't need to be together, to be together...
Very weird how birds of a feather flock together...
2007-04-07 20:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll have to conform to the attitude of the group you are entering. it's like tasting new food, you don't know what you're gonna get, if you're allergic to it, if it tastes good, if it's hot, cold, etc etc. there will be a lot of hesitations because you won't know if that friend you're gunning for will click it out with you.
but it doesn't hurt to try. your best friend might be waiting for you to meet him!
2007-04-08 08:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by yawmee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is for you but it isn't for me. I look at everyone as being my friend, until they decide they don't want to be my friend. Then it is their choice and I will support them by not being their friend (until they decide to be my friend again). I don't care, because I have too many friends to worry about someone who doesn't want to be my friend.
2007-04-08 01:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by Amphibolite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you expand on that?
2007-04-07 20:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by :: tomi :: 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋