Cancerian about to marry a cancerian, will it last?

Answer 1

I'm not down for the copy and paste thing, (some of these sites use massive words and run-on sentances) so I'll give you the scoop:


The trait: You're VERY emotional about anything and everything!

Good or bad?
Both. On the positive side, you two will understand where the other is coming from. Who could better understand the weepy needs of a Cancer than another Cancer? On the other hand, you both are competing for time--that is, while he's dealing with trauma (or trying to find some to deal with) you'll want him to ask you about your emotional needs. When he doesn't this can be quite upsetting. It really depends on the cancer's moon sign as to whether they're more likely to help or hurt with this trait.


The trait: You're negitive, and seek drama. You're discontent without a problem in your life, though you hate to admit it.

Good or bad?
Both, mostly bad. You can sometimes bring each other down, with negitive plus negitive thinking. It can be a plus though: Other signs would get annoyed at your avoiding the rose-coloured glasses.



The trait: You're loyal, even clingy

Good or bad?
FABULOUS!! Your cancer partner is very clingy, and as long as you like (or, in your case, love) your Cancer partner, the clingyness makes you feel loved. Nothing hurts more than being cheated on, and another cancer will so not do that. You're one of the only signs that don't feelweighed down by a clingy cancer.



The trait: You're very attached to your past

Good or bad?
Eek, this one could sting. You see, when you live together you both will want to incorperate tradition from your past. You hate to give that up, and your attachment to the way you grew up makes you both strive for that same atmosphere. This might be hard when kids are in the picture



The trait: You're both amazing parents, very nurtuing

Good or bad?
Good, as when you have kids youwill be great parents. A word of warning though: You might find yourselves trying to "out-nurture" each other. The 2 cancers both have beedn known to have a way with kids or people in general, and there may be some competition when it comes to trying to be a better parent--or even a better spouse.


Congrats honey, and this is just astrology...if your questioning your nupitals, then call it off, but if this is just for fun to see, and you know your making the right desision, then CONGRATULATIONS!

Answer 2

Since you're birds of a feather, or rather humans of a zodiac sign, you have the potential to grow closer than most couples. Just remember when you're involved with a Cancer, you're involved with a parent, a patriot, a nurse and a night-owl. If you can give each other emotional commitment and security, a loving home and some care for children, you have a better chance of getting each other's love and affection.

Cancer and Cancer spend a great deal of time in the world of feelings emotions and intuitions. Each one of you experiences life as an ebb and flow of emotional tides and currents. Neither one of you deals with people so much by their outward appearance as by their inner states. Each one of you has a degree of psychic power. You can cultivate a mutual appreciation of music and art.

TIP: Work on your non-verbal communication together.

Learn to dance together. Share a ride on a water bed. Intangibles play a great role in your life together. To share greater success, develop a greater understanding of the interconnectedness and interdependence of all forms of life. In other words, develop your empathy, compassion and emotional rapport. Cancer and Cancer can create success by sharing a vision of the future.

Essentially, you're both good people who need to deal with family and emotional issues. Your hugs are world class and snuggles are second to none. You're both naturally inclined to be touchy about some, but not all relatives and needs to work on the family tree and make some sense of it all.

Each of you has moods that change about four times a day, every two and a half days, every month and every 18 or 19 years. You need to make the most of these cycles, and establish goals with corresponding deadlines.

Neither one of you is necessarily the most direct individual. Security is something you're both aware of. Usually it's a top priority. Together, you are definitely strong and protective of turf. You both like to start things and to take the initiative. You're each restless, energetic, outgoing, opportunistic and ambitious. Probably, you're both more busy than bored.

Answer 3

Two Cancerian subjects create a lot Emotional Security for their family and their selves, so the answer to your question is yes.Be happy.

Answer 4

Cancer & Cancer

When two Cancerians come together in a love affair, a loving and yet very emotional domestic relationship ensues. A Cancer-Cancer match makes for a deeply devoted duo, endlessly loyal to one another. Both will learn the ins-and-outs of their partner, the best ways to heat each other up or, if necessary, to cool one another down. Both will also find great comfort and satisfaction in their underlying commitment to one another. This couple is faithful and caring, helpful and sympathetic of individual needs and very oriented toward making a home and creating a sense of family -- especially when they can get over their brooding, manipulative and self-pitying habits. If they can find a way to keep their fluid and moody emotions in check, this relationship will nurture both lovers.

A Cancer's place is in the home. Once safely entrenched in their personal sanctuary, the moody Crab may forget about the world outside, not paying mind to the opinions of others, only concerned with what's going on behind their own closed doors. This attitude carries over into relationships: Like their cherished possessions and material comforts, Cancer never hesitates to defend a loved one if threatened. This devotion and willingness to fight and toil for the survival and success of their relationships are really a Crab's greatest contributions to the game of love. It's no wonder Cancer's symbol is the 'crabby' scuttling Crab, for outbursts and flare-ups are common with this emotional crustacean. While their mood swings may injure each other's feelings, it's a Cancer's subtle mastery of the fine art of emotional manipulation that one should watch out for.

The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and this Sign is sensitive to the moods that ebb and flow with the Moon's monthly cycles. The Moon, the maternal orb of the heavens, is the celestial force behind Cancer's great maternal and care-giving nature. The energy of this instinct creates a warm, secure home environment, a perfect love nest for the growing and cultivation of a healthy relationship.

Cancer is a Water Sign. Instinct and emotion drive this relationship. With these deep, intense intuitive powers comes a fragility, as Cancer's feelings are brittle and easily hurt. Hence, that Crabby shell in which they hide themselves when frightened or overwhelmed. So often retreating to their shells can put a strain on any relationship with a Cancer, but two Crabs together will hopefully be perceptive of each other's needs for personal space and temporary time-outs. The key is realizing that it's not a personal slight if one of these Cancers wants some alone-time. This Watery element of their nature can protect them and their loved ones from the harsh realities of the outside world.

Cancer is a Cardinal Sign. Though not the most physically active of the Signs, a Cancer's quick emotional reflexes and powers of perception offer an alternate line of defense under stress. The Crab is not shy about getting exactly what they want from their partner. The protecting feral beast within is the first emotional element to leap forward under stress or a threat to the pack. However, these bursts of emotion may overwhelm a Cancer and crush their tender feelings. Fierce loyalty binds this Cancer-Cancer love match, but it can also threaten its very existence. Both partners must always strive to see things from their lover's point of view as well as their own.

What's the best thing about the Cancer-Cancer love match? Their utter devotion to enriching their commitment and the strong emotional bond between them. Together, this pair will protect one another and keep their love safe from the outside world, as well as work toward creating a happy domestic life and nurturing a loving family.

Answer 5

Wow you really sound worried. I try not to read to much into that horoscope thing. If you are worried you might want to re-think getting married. You should be 100% sure when you walk down the isle with someone, if you have the slightest hint of doubt, it probably wasn't meant to be.

Answer 6

i am a cancer and my hubby is a cancer. we are working on our 15th year of marriage and 18th year together.

we have had our share of good fights. we do bicker a bit also but we are in love and you learn to work through the quirks and irritations.

i did read somewhere before i got married that cancers are not compatible mates with cancers because cancers need affection and attention but do not always like to give it. therefore you would both want the affection and attention but neither of you would want to give it. also cancers tend to be sensative and read into things alot. cancers also want what they want when they want it, but are stubborn to give in when someone else is demanding of them. i think there is some truth to that but when you love someone, hopefully you give each other what you need.

neither of us could imagine being with or married to someone else.

Answer 7

u can have lots of things in common and u will find urselves as good friends. but u guys are not complementary though. i both would have to learn to not want to be the boss every time and not to get to involved in mood swings. u will both get moody at times, but just remember to understand ur partener just as u would like him to do to u.

besides, do u know ur moon signs and other chart aspects?? that can also determine how compatible are u.

hope this helps!!

Answer 8

i kno that 2 cancers have been married for 35 yrs.. if they can do it so can u

Answer 9

If you really love each other and communicate well,trust each other, honest,and help each other with housework, cooking, it should matter what signs you are.

Answer 10

No way to judge personalities based on a horoscope.