Survey: Has your heart ever been someone's piñata?

Question

Do elaborate if you can...

Answer 1

Yes, once and only once it is now coated with a titanium emotional barrier. When I was running my own company life was hectic, I had 17 employees to watch over, meetings with engineers, architects etc etc every day, all the bookwork and no help. It was starting to get out of control so a 'close friend' of mine offered to help with it all. Being a training lawyer I thought this would be great. Turned out he was helping himself as he was jealous of the life I had with my family as he had destroyed his own and divorced. He knew my every movement like when I would have to stay in hotels overnight for functions etc. and he would be round my house lying to my wife about where I was, or that I had prostitutes with me cause I was sick of her.
Unfortunately I didn't get any wind of this until I got home one evening and he was at my home with my wife in the kitchen. When I walked in my wife said that she understood that I didn't love her anymore and that I should just leave. Whilst giving this sickening speach the lying bastard had snuck out the side door. I didn't get mad I sat down and went through the whole thing, though when she said she had been sleeping with him I took a step back, she had been lied to that I was sleeping around with this bastards knowledge that she would find comfort in his arms. If I had of gone to a job completion party that was planned for that night my faminly would have been gone the next day. This piece of work had book tickets interstate for everyone so I wouldn't be able to find them and put an end to all madness. He had played the game soooo damned well that my wife was brainwashed into believing I would become violent with her at any mention of what was happening so she had agreed to go interstate with him. How lucky am I that I didn't feel like going out THAT night ?
I will never blame her for what she did, I wanted to kill him so bad, though it would achieve nothing really, he sent text after text to both my phone and my wifes wanting to apologise and to come around to see us and that my wife be with him cause I didn't deserve her. It was sickening and I just had to walk around in a state of depression for months and every time I saw my wife it felt like another blow to the heart, killing me slowly from within. I was willing to wear all this for the kids though. If my wife had lost love for me I would pretend it was there so the kids had a happy upbringing with a mum and a dad. 18 months on now and it still hurts sometimes though I went back to travelling for work about 2 months after it happened, now I'm only home for about a week a month so distance has made the heart grow fonder.

But I swear to you now I will never have my heart used that way again. Trust issued and barriers have been erected that are harder to penetrate than the white house.

Sorry about the long sad story, but you did say elaborate.

Take care

Answer 2

With a cookie cutter in crown form. KELLOGG'S RICE KRISPIES TREATS a million/4 cup butter a million (10 oz.., approximately 40) pkg. person-friendly marshmallows or 3 cups miniature marshmallows 6 cups Kellogg's Rice Krispies cereal In a brilliant saucepan, soften butter over low heat temperature. upload the marshmallows and proceed to stir different than the marshmallows have completely melted. eliminate from heat temperature. Stir in the Kellogg's Rice Krispies cereal coating them good with the melted marshmallow combination. employing a buttered or silicone spatula, press the mixture calmly suitable right into a 13 x 9 x 2 inch pan which has been buttered or sprayed with non-stick spray or coated with wax paper. decrease into crowns, with the cookies cutter, together as regardless of the undeniable fact that scorching. enjoy mar

Answer 3

Yes, for the last 17+ years, but its the kind of pinata where you pull the strings and then yummy, sweet stuff showers down on the people around me. Then somebody fills it up again, so there's a never-ending supply.

Sorry, but since Clockwork and others before me gave the heart-break stories, I figured I'd have to take a different tack. Besides, you've already heard my married, pathological liar story.

Answer 4

Once, long ago, when I fell for someone who was cute, funny, musically talented and totally amoral.

I learned from it. I think the time he called me on my birthday, said, happy birthday chick, can you come get me out of jail? (at 3 in the morning, no less) pretty much did it. The week before that he told me he wanted to go out with other women because "a guy needs to be PROUD of what he's out with"... and the skank he was talking about was, yes, younger than me, also fatter, and had a face like pepperoni pizza (all red and yellow spots). I went, got him out of jail, (he had to sign his car title to me to get it) and then refused to give him back the car. Or his last paycheck. he didn't have a bank account, so we put his check in my account, then I gave him money from it as he asked for it. Result: he lost his car, his apartment, AND the skank. And me. I don't get mad, I don't get even, I get ONE UP. And then I moved and he couldn't find me, hahahahaha!

Answer 5

Yes, it was smashed by the cruellest of blows and its delicious candies spread across the ground to rot unwanted. Apart from a few that were eaten by crows and beetles. Thats how it felt anyway.

Answer 6

Yes, I was dating this really inconsiderate person alittle over a year ago that expected me to buy everything and pay for everything, when they were done with me they just threw me to the side for someone they thought was better. Makes me thankful I am single and not with that person anymore. =)

Answer 7

its seemed that way once , he moved out with another girl from the same appt complex , then kept trying to return to me . I refused , but I admit that when the other girl would call me and yell at me looking for him , I smiled and said " you wanted him, you deserve him"

Answer 8

Yes.

Answer 9

Yes, I really like this girl, yet she really hated me, it just hurt my heart like someone was whacking it with a bat "sniff"

Answer 10

yeah, i think we've all been there. i've managed to stay very close friends with someone who did it to me, but that's not usually how it works out. it's a horrible feeling that i wouldn't wish on anyone.