A couple of weeks ago my bf and me went to a fancy dress party, and he went dressed as a woman. I helped him with his costume and make up etc. Since then though, he's hinted at doing it again in private. I quite like the idea as it was a bit of a turn on. Has anybody else helped their partner crossdress for the same reason?
2007-04-07 04:05:20 · 16 answers · asked by xX Em Xx 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No I've never helped my partner crossdress. Though, If it turned you on and he loves it, I don't see why it is wrong. Have fun with your sex life. Why not?
2007-04-07 04:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by juvina c 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Em
I have been told that it only takes one time for a male to dress in female clothing, the rest is history. My SO dresses en-fem quite often. I really think your bf has been doing this for quite some time, that's fine. The party was just his way of breaking the news to you. I can attest that there are some ladies that find this very distasteful.. Bottom line is this.
If he is a cross dresser, it is a need, something that he has to do on occasion, not likely that it will go away. It was a bit hard for me to accept, he never had sore breast's or a period. But wants to wear our silky sexy clothing. I love him and this is a side of him just like his macho side, believe it or not. Yes I have helped him, sent him to change into something more appropriate to the occasion, and were fine. You have fun with things, he will want to do it more often so fasten your seat belt. Just keep it safe and have fun,.
Michelle
2007-04-07 11:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both into it then go for it have fun.
I used to dress a friend of mine and go out clubbing. He was straight but was really into women's clothes & corsetry. I had great fun taking him shopping. There are some great fetish shops which make stilettos for men. I have gone out with my friend in the same outfit and he looked better than me!!!
My friend found it hard to find the right woman to have a serious relationship with as if he hadnt met them when he was dressed up, they would often run a mile when he told them. So if you are both honest and open you with have great fun.
You only live once and variety really is the spice of life.
2007-04-08 02:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by Chris DXB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do behind closed doors is up to you... but why not try it and spice up the the old sex life... you both seem keen so as long as that is always the case I say go for it!!
2007-04-07 14:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by Chelsea Shrimper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a transvestite and this is normal for him. Of all the sexual diversions this is probably one of the least harmful. . If you like the idea go for it. I have been doing ti for many years and it is very relaxing
2007-04-07 13:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by Maid Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once knew a very manly man,(straight) who played rugby, liked women, etc., who used to wear stockings, suspenders, miniskirt and blouse, when he had sex with his lady. She loved it. Each to his/her own, in private
2007-04-07 14:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a boyfriend, and I don't want one.....
If this turns you both on, then go for it! Nothing wrong with playing.
2007-04-07 11:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by FTW 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get yourself a strap on sure he ll love it
2007-04-08 11:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say that I have, but if you both enjoy it, go for it!
2007-04-07 11:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by wirefence 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
different strokes for different folks. do what the **** u want, as long as u enjoy it and its what u want to do!
2007-04-07 13:10:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋