My SO enjoy's dressing en-fem, he looks for real when he is dressed, very convincing. After a bit of time I now am going along with this, no touchie or feeley when he is dressed as a her tho. Were the same sizes, when he gets his fem shaping stuff on, including his life like silicone breast forms, wants to "share" some of my clothing. He reminds me that I use his stuff when I'm working around the farm in my manley state as he calls it. What do some of you girls think? I guess guys can answer too!
Michelle
2007-04-07 03:38:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's okay to share some of your clothing, but if he wants to cross-dress, then he needs to get his own wardrobe. My wife borrows more of my clothes now that I have a nice wardrobe of my own.
2007-04-07 12:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, couple of things. First - thank you from a crossdresser. Thanks for being kind and thoughtful and open minded. This would be a much nicer world with more people that had a spark of compassion. Next thing - I think it's an awesome idea! Your brother should be able to understand that the Bride is the star of the wedding. Nothing should distract from her special day - the day SHE is supposed to be the princess. Let's face it, having him there cross dressed would have been a major distraction, so your decision to not allow that to happen at the wedding can be understood. Your now offering to give him the dress and spend the time to help make it special by having pics taken with you in your gown is a VERY thoughtful and kind gesture. Even if he declines and says "nah, don't worry about it", he will KNOW that you thought about him, that you cared, and that you tried to make him happy. I think it's an awesome gesture. :-)
2016-05-19 03:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats great that you support his hobby or whatever you two want to call it and you dont discriminate. i too enjoy being en-fem sometimes and yes im a male. i have a few clothes that i wear and sometimes i wear my girlfriends clothes carefully not to destroy it since im a size bigger than she is. there were times when i stayed at her house and had to pick her up at work while i was dressed up. halloween 05 i went as a nurse and man i looked hot. my hiar was brushed straight, dyed a darker brown than the original color, full makeup on, i think i had press-on nails applied too, my body shaved. krissy (thats her name) says she loves me as either gender, and i love her for loving me as i am. a bisexual crossdresser wannabe shemale.
if you cna post a photo of the two of yinz that would be cool
2007-04-07 09:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by jamz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I saw a talkshow on this subject. The man started out wearing womens clothing and then ventured out in public that way to get gratification from people really assuming he was female. Then he quit his job to apply for other jobs strictly as a female.
Of course he took this one step further and got a sex change operation. But before all this happened the couple had children who,
in the end had 2 moms which isn't all that bad but they did essentially have to mourn the loss of their father.
2007-04-07 03:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
My and ex use to share clothes, as well and was actually a little bit thinner than me with his "get up" on and bigger up top with his "falsies".
I agree with Meg, if he's going to share clothes - he needs to share duties, that you do. Cooking, cleaning, etc.
We also use to dress up together when we went on vacation, which was a blast as well.
2007-04-09 07:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a crossdresser, and I could only wish for a partner like you! That's really cool that you accept him for who he is. You should probably get more household chores out of him when he is dressed though.
2007-04-10 10:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by gurlygirlhottie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mind sharing unless there are concerns about the items not being taken care of. As long as he's conscientious, careful with your property, why not? Relationships are full of sharing.
2007-04-07 03:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by Zeera 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't mind sharing clothes, with a woman, your boyfriend is lucky to have someone who understands in why he wears women's clothes.
2007-04-07 04:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by Ben N 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think if this is what he wants, then he should do it. It is a brave thing. And if you keep on supporting him, then he has got a good friend in you.
2007-04-07 06:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by Bloed 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd make a deal, like he has to do all the hand washing if he wants to share. :)
2007-04-07 03:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by Meg W 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋