Im going to be 19 very soon, and im not the tallest, or biggest person. Im only 5'2", and have problems gaining weight. All my clothes are either extra small, or 0. Since im small, my bra size is small ( 34 B) so why is it that men seem to make shallow comments to me about how 'theirs are bigger than mine' or 'you have the body of a 12 year old'. I mean honestly, why do men say this stuff? Its not like i feel self consicious already about the fact that I have like nothing, so why do men always make me feel terrible about myself? Im bigger than an A cup but I feel like the most un-feminine woman in the world. Men, your comments do hurt us. We have enough pressure already to have huge bustlines, we dont need your criticism too!
2007-04-07 02:59:53 · 7 answers · asked by blearghll 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
aww honey------everyone does not like what they have-----just think of it like this, you can wear padded bras and multiple layers without looking stupid............its easier to get bigger than it is to shrink, and once you do shrink, you get saggy.......i have 38DD and i cant wear cute little tops, cute bras, tank tops, skimpy bikini tops, but again, i am 5'9'', so i am taller than you, but trust me, i wish i was smaller.
i think guys like boobs, but only 2 a certain extent, and also guys like every kind of boobs........i found this out when my fiance and his best friend and best friends girlfriend were flashing people on the highway.............the best friends girl had 36 B, and i had my DD's and the truck drivers that we were flashing, about half preferred the little boobs over mine......it just goes to prove that not all men have to have huge boobs------my fiance likes mine, but i think they are too big, so it all depends on the person----we can thank hollywood, playboy, and other media for giving us the image that a huge butt, huger boobs, and a skinny waist and being very tall is the only kind of sexy.
i think all women are awesome-----we truly are stronger than men and we hold the world together and we do stand up to a lot of pressure to be thin, beautiful, have big boobs, and all that crap-------the thing is, we are great enough to stand up to it and not go psycho and go on a shooting spree cuz our pride is wounded, but that doesnt mean it still does not hurt.
2007-04-07 03:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really honey if you are that tiny, a Bcup size is normal to maybe even slightly large. Don't let what other people say bother you. They only say rude things because they have self image problems. If you want bigger boobs look into a breast augmentation. Just make sure you dont go Pam Anderson on me. Be classy and tasteful maybe just go up a size and the boys will love it!
2007-04-07 03:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by Austin Ellis- Due May 18, 2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can insult you without your permission. You can either get mad about their remarks, or you can not worry about it, because you know that you're a girl whether they realize it or not.
Just look at them like you would a small drooling child (which is pretty close to the truth for some 19 year old guys), and tell them "Don't worry, you'll never have the chance to see them to know for sure!"
These guys are saying these things because they know that it gets a reaction out of you. When that stops, they'll stop.
One last thing to keep in mind - small things come in good packages!! (Think about that for a minute - it'll come to you)
2007-04-07 03:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bee chuffed. even as i replaced into 11 i replaced into already almost to a C cup. i'm a DD now! I wish i had your boobs! yet, it relies upon on what the guy is into. they do no longer have boobs, so likely, once you've massive boobs and they instruct plenty, likely, some guy could favor to get in some boob action with you. if truth be told, if i replaced right into a guy, i could bypass the boob sand in simple terms proceed on to regardless of. wish it helped xoxo ;P
2016-11-27 01:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll trade you my 34 d's, but you gotta take the rest of the size 13 body with it.
I'm just kidding, Men who criticize ladies are jerks. There are plenty of guys out there that love girls with your body type, and surprisingly there are some that like mine too. Don't be self concious.
2007-04-07 03:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by ☭ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate my boobs i'm 13 and a size 34d i get comments about mine but they don't seem to bother me i just ignore them you should try and feel more confident try padded bras if you don't already
2007-04-07 03:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound pretty hot to me.
2007-04-07 03:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋