i am a very calm not talkative person i would like to be more outgoing and extroverted ! can u help me do it!!!
2007-04-07 02:14:11 · 5 answers · asked by stingo127 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I agree with those who say that you do not have to change. Your environment will change many times in your life and the world needs all types of people. It is all right to admire those who are out-going and the "life of the party", but you would be surprised how many people admire you for being quiet and appearing to be a "thinker". Maybe they will not notice you right away, but buck up and have confidence that you are a personality type the world needs and will probably turn to because they will find more confidence in quiet determination. So, I guess you could say these are characteristics you can develop that fit being introverted.
2007-04-07 02:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by cavassi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you can do it. You may just need to work on your social skills a bit. Possibly take some classes for that or read about it and do some reasearch. Try little by little. Like small talk with people. "hello" "what's up" "hows the wheather supposed to be like tommarow?". Things like that. But you CAN do it you just need to try. ok well good luck!.
~Sara
2007-04-07 09:22:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sara V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be more social just talk to people act diferent not chhange everything you do try sometyhing new talk about what others are talking about dont be afraid to disagree
2007-04-07 09:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we have the same characteristics...what i did (that was bad) was to have a outgoing best friend...she shares secrets with me...
so when i told her...she promised to help me get more friends...
2007-04-07 09:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why change?
If people can't accept you as you are, they are not worth knowing.
2007-04-07 09:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Ponty Rab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋