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Which country has the most homosexuals, gays in particular. Why do people want to be gay anyways?

2007-04-07 02:02:17 · 26 answers · asked by Babybop 2 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

People actually can control being gay so dont give me they are born gay excuse cause i know some guys who just became gay. They werent born gay and people cant just be born gay, because if they were then they would stay gay but some eventually grow to become men! so cut the born gay and no choice crap. It is a choice.

2007-04-07 15:55:16 · update #1

being gay is more like a religion.

please answer it wisely!

2007-04-07 16:05:09 · update #2

uh actually studies show there are nothing in the cells of chromosomes to prove that one has an inclination to be gay. so ya i can have proof that no one is born gay.

2007-04-13 22:27:33 · update #3

26 answers

all over the world dude....we're here to stay....enjooooooyyyyyy

2007-04-07 02:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 3 1

Short answer? China ... they have the highest population in the world.
Responding to a fallacious point you tried to make ... you state that being gay is a choice because you know guys that just decided to be gay. I wonder if you have ever actually done any research. I'd be interested to know if you asked the guys in question whether they "decided" to be gay or not. I'm inclined to think that you didn't and "decided" that it's what happened.
My friend, and I use that term loosely, the people that you think "decided" to be gay actually "decided" to stop fighting their true nature and stepped out of the closet. They were born gay. Deal with it. Or don't. Either way, stop saying it's a choice because it isn't.

BTW ... when did you "decide" to be straight? Hmmmmm???
What was that? Did I hear you say you were BORN that way??? Interesting.

2007-04-13 13:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by redhaired_one 3 · 1 0

How do you know these people that changed their lifestyle decided to do so on their own, the gay lifestyle appeared to be an enjoyable thing, maybe THEY were not born with this desire, but liked what the lifestyle offered. And why would such a small number of people acting this way be proof that all gays are the same? Thats like saying all French are stupid, and the proof of this is 2 were on tv and they were, in my opinion all French ARE stupid, but not because a few showed they were, but because they have gotten us into 3 wars, and we are stupider, because we let them. You cant take a group and apply any generalizations to it, without facts, and where are yours? And the country with the most gays? Not sure, but why not take the next 30 years and count them, will be waiting to see the results on the net when you have counted them all.

2007-04-13 02:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 3 · 1 0

G R O W U P P L E A S E !!
Why would anyone want to be something that is hated by more than half of the world population, abused in a LOT of Countries, and still, wouldn't be having a normal wedding or a normal Husband-Wife hang out with family, and also in a lot of cases, bring shame back to his family!?! Ask yourself this question dude, before you fill us with your silly assumptions!
Being gay is not as "EASY" as it might seem dear, we suffer a lot everyday, and no wonder, that suffering makes us even more sensitive and human than straights are, probably that's why you hate us back!

I'm living in country that has punishments for gay dating even through the internet, up to killing! We live a threat of being caught inside our houses everyday, and we're always afraid to meet new people just because it might turn to be another police officer who's proud to catch another faggiot! So, you come back and tell me it's my choice!!

It's NOT AT ALL my choice to be gay, but it IS my total choice to be VERY PROUD of it! So, S***w You!

2007-04-15 00:28:11 · answer #4 · answered by aMmOOooR 2 · 0 0

There is no want, it's in one's nature, and cannot be changed, much like skin colour.

The country with the most homosexuals technically should be China, as they have 20% of the world's population, thus they should have 20% of the world's total homosexuals. I actually hope that they'll embrace this, as they have a shortage of females now because of the old one child policy, and so embracing the homosexuals would ease some of the burden on families to find a female for their men to marry.

My guess for the country with the most numbers of people who identify as gay, it's probably the USA. Just because of population size and freedom of speech and such, people can be outwardly homosexual without fear or repercussions.

2007-04-07 04:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by Luis 6 · 2 0

Hi, As far as I know 10 years old I experienced attractions towards women I did not know then that having those feelings would eventually show me the nature of some people. I discovered that people can be judgemental, critical, arrogant, hurt full, violent, men have threatened to rape me cause they reckoned I needed a good screw. These experiences taught me not to be judgemental, critical, arrogant, hurt full, or violent in any way towards anybody why? Cause I didn't like how it felt when I was on the recieving end of it. If I chose to be attracted to women I would like to know what you think I should do about it seeing how you believe I have a choice. I am happy with my life thankyou. REALITY check it's really none of your business. Furthermore instead of judging people who label themselves as gay or lesbian maybe you could try to accept what you cannot change, and change what you can. Another words you can only "change" you I can only "change" me the rest is semantics.

2007-04-14 21:42:38 · answer #6 · answered by cherub 1 · 0 0

People are born gay my friend. I take it your straight and have never had or need to recipicate any feelings towards the opposite sex. Firstly, there are those who are confused who enter into a relationship with the opposite sex and were straight but confused very confused. Eventually they realised that this is not for them. So to begin with they were never gay they just switched for a certain period.

Secondly, there are us, who are born gay, never switched sides and continue to be who we are. So if you want to be so damn judgemental about our sexuality, who gives you the right to question whether we were born this way.

There are people who married but always knew they were gay but refused to subject to ridicule, there are people who cross over and just want to experience the other side until they decide this is not their life style. There are alo people who are bi-sexual, that their choice they just prefer both sides of the fence. And then you get those who were always the way that we are, gay from day one.

So you decided buddy, but dont be so damn judgemental, always have an open mind, it could help you see things clearer.

2007-04-11 21:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

I watched a documentary one time about gay and straight people...they took the frozen brain from a heterosexual male and female and also from a homosexual male and female..and they made very thin slices .There is a dark like circular piece in the brain the male has a small black mark i do believe and the female had a large black mark. When they sliced the homosexual brains the black marks were reversed..so you see it is showed that this is not something one chooses it is something inside of you at birth.

2007-04-14 13:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You clearly lack any sort of serious knowledge, being homosexual is no more a choice than heterosexuality, it is in-built. You may not want to hear that, but it's true.

You come across as nothing more than a bigotted idiot who can't see past their own little prejudices, the sooner you grow out of them the better for everybody. The only thing that keeps people clutching to their prejudices is fear, let go of it, you'll feel better for it you really will.

2007-04-14 13:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by TFR 2 · 0 0

In general statistics, it says that there is one gay child in every 10 families nowadays. I guess it is not a matter of country...

I don't understand why people would want to be gay if they would have a choice...

2007-04-14 07:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by Cheng 2 · 0 0

Which country has the most left handed people? Why do people want to be left handed anyways?

That's basically the same thing you're asking about gays. It's cool to be curious about it. Personally I've always wondered the same thing about heterosexuals. But heterosexuals can't help who they are because they didn't chose to be heterosexual, just like right handed people didn't choose to be right handed.

Life happens.

-Rev. Jim Cunningham
GayChristianSurvivors.com

2007-04-07 07:31:00 · answer #11 · answered by kjv_gods_word 5 · 0 0

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