im in need of freinds which could heip me to get over this problem.........?

Question

i am guy frm que
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070404214554AATEape
plz help me to overcome ........coz i have been advised my docs and psychiatrist to meet more new ppl and interact so plzz heip

its my genuine request flirtatious gals and mean ppl don aply........coz i need a true freind
and bfr the heck u say internet is not a place to find a true freind........i say u even i have 7 yrs of experience on net and i know that still....lets see
Still im a very co0o0o0L and interesting guy and ready to prove myself in difficult times.......my asl is in the link above

i feel that there are also good ppl around there on net.......answer to cotteralladams2

Answer 1

it is true that true friends are hard to find but there is no spcified place where they are available. the truth is they are every where you just have to find and recognize them.

hope you overcome your illness soon.
good luck.

Answer 2

Dude u are only 17yo. That's sometimes common to have been obsessed with other stuff and maybe not gotten the knack of makin friends easy.

Trust me that u will get some friends (and waitin for good ones is important...but really massive hard tho).

Just relax man. Things ain't as bad as it seems. When u get to university u will start meeting more people just like u...and then u almost automatically will have friends. And eventually even a girlfriend will pop up there too.

Don't change yourself just to make friends man. It's way more important to be your own guy than to have a bunch of friends based on stuff u may not really like to do or be.

Just do the same things u always do...u could maybe be more social to people. But do it naturally, don't force it.

I read your other page too and I sense u are a sensitive person. It hurts now man, but later it will give u a better life than most cuz u will really appreciate stuff more.

U gotta be strong tho man. Don't give in to bad thoughts. And work at not lettin bad stuff other people say or do affect your emotions.

Sometimes people just plain suck and u gotta ignore em for a while till they grow up some. Me I used to be a little punk some when I was around 14yo to 15yo especially. And I bet I hurt some kids' feelings without realising it at all. I shoulda got my butt beat more often for some stuff, but I was too big for most of em.

The reason I'm tellin this is to show u that if people are givin u crap, most likely they ain't really thinkin about what they're doin and will regret it when they start usin what brains they got.

What kind of stuff do u like? What do u like to do? What areas do u want to pursue at university? Keep questions like that in mind when u think of meeting new people and making new friends. If u find people with interests like u, it goes way better man.

I know I ain't the best advice giver, but u can email me if u want.

Answer 3

For some reason I felt compelled to answer you on this or at least give you my opinion. Friendship is earned over a period of time { that is true friendship} Friends don't come easy so you will have to take your time on this one. When I hit a point in my life that I needed some new friends I joined a group of people that had the same interests as I did. In my case it was a motorcycle group and a fishing club. Met a lot of new people and enjoy being around them. You need to find a group that relates to the things you like doing. Whether it is fishing, hunting, needle work, crafts whatever you like doing. When you find this group just be yourself and don't try to impress or push yourself on anyone. Give it time, you will be surprised on how quick you get to know others and they get to know you. Don't limit yourself to finding a friend go for a bunch of friends. Sure there will be 2 or 3 that are closer to you but treat all your friends with respect and they will do the same for you.

Answer 4

Hi, I m in the same situation as u.. And till date i have not found a solution.. i even thought of suicide.. But i do not have guts to kill myself. I would like to be ur friend ... Hope v understand each other and find solutions to our problems..

Answer 5

So why are you on the Internet looking for these friends?

Answer 6

you can e_mail me this is my real user name if you want to talk . ?

Answer 7

i'll be your friend