2007-04-06 19:04:26 · 4 answers · asked by big_1_1244 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
"Get a girlfriend" sounds a lot like a shopping mission. Human relationships tend to be a bit more complicated than picking out a pair of shoes.
The serious answer is to learn how to communicate with girls. This includes learning to share your thoughts and feelings and learning to listen to her thoughts and feelings. If you cannot be comfortable doing these than you will have a hard time forming any long lasting relationship.
A less serious answer (for those who play relationship games) is as follows:
The best way to get a girlfriend is to use some sort of trap. A live trap is better than a bear trap with teeth which might damage the girl. The choice in bait will determine the type of girl attracted. Use cash or jewelry for gold-diggers. Use wit and charm for Ivy league women. Use a flawed personality trait for the Florence Nightingales. Sports and comedy generally work as well.
Once caught, the romance will usually not last so enjoy her as much as possible while you can.
2007-04-06 23:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by Richard 7 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I like a guy with confidence not *********. I also have to feel comfortable when I'm around him. Getting a girlfriend is not that hard. Keeping a girlfriend is another story. Be real from start to end and you won't have any problems. Good luck!
2007-04-10 17:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by moon7043 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a mall and everytime u see a fine girl approach her and say, "hey do u need some ice cuz yur smokin fine!!" then wait for her responce....if she likes wat u said ask her for her number if she dont like wat u said then walk away...then after u get like 10 fine girl phone numbers....call them all and ask them out over the phone....yes i know askin over the phone is bad....but try to get it where u leave a message and on message say, "hey its me from the mall....just wanted to know if u wanted to go see a movie with me this weekend....the movie theaters are usually cold but yur so hot u cud probably just wair a short skirt and a tank top and u should be fine...yull probably be able to heat me up too so ill jsut wear some new gym shorts and a tank top as well....we cud match...ok well call me back...bye" then the ones that call u back with a yes....u go out wit all of them on different days....usually there will only be about 4 that say yes....so thursday night...friday night,,,sayurday night,,,sunday night....then pick which ones u like the best and ask them out again and there is usually 2 left after this round...then u ask them both to a movie on different nights again...but now u can arrange a more sexy attire and u can cuddle a little more...and whoever u like the best of those 2 if the one u keep and now u got a gf that u really really really really really really really really really really really really really like....trust me....ive done that method plenty of times....and by the time i get to the final 2-3...the one that iwns is usually the one that i play ''monopoly" with in the movie theater...so before u pick best answer try it out and i guarentee it works...and if it dont then dont pick me for best answer....but i have been doin that method for about 2 years now....and i have a gf always....now with me....after 4 months...oi break up wit girls just because i want a different variety....u might find one u wanna keep forever...and ever...if so do that....TRUST ME IF U DO IT LIKE I JUST SAID...IT WILL WORK!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-07 15:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sean Giborty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it comes naturally.
2007-04-07 12:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by Terri L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋