How should Cancer deal with Libra friend?

Question

Shes depressed, and I want to help her. I'm VERY cancer...she's VERY Libra. What makes sense in her mind?

Answer 1

Two answers above are almost the same but very detailed. I'm not sure I can say more other than if you are a typical Cancer you are extremely sensitive and you are a lovely person to have around when someone's feeling down. You can almost tune into your friend's feelings and you probably instinctively know what to say to make her feel better. What makes sense in her mind? A good question. Libra is an Air sign and there is every chance her thoughts are influencing her emotions. Get her to talk,though I think you've probably already tried. It takes intellectual stimulation to get Libra to stop feeling bored and restless and I think if you can't get to the root of the problem, one other way to help her deal with her depression is to distract her. Get her out and about and interested in new activities. Get involved in group or charitable activities and this might make her feel as if other people need her. Keep her mind occupied and this might help her to stop dwelling on whatever it is that's currently bothering her. Good luck.

Answer 2

When Cancer and Libra form a friendship, they each supply what the other is lacking. Both Signs are looking for security in their close alliances, and they share an appreciation for beauty and luxury. The two can get along well if they share respect and a common goal. This friendship may start slowly, and at first the two may seem to have little in common. The more they get to know each other, however, the better each person will recognize and respect positive qualities in the other.Cancer and Libra both appreciate emotional and intellectual resources, and they're both suckers for the sentimental. Emotion and happiness are important to both Signs, and they complement each other in many ways. Cancer appreciates Libra's charm and diplomacy, and Libra can tame the wild shrew Cancer becomes when they don't get their way. Libra appreciates the Cancerian love of nurturing and the security that comes with it. Additionally, Libra can help Cancer see the different sides of a situation, rather than making a decision without knowing all the facts. Conversely, Cancer can help cure Libra of their notorious indecision. Cancer is ruled by the Moon and Libra by the Planet Venus. These friends share a love of home and family. Libra, especially, is about balance, and both share nurturing personalities and a desire for harmony. Together they are able to bring warmth and stability to their friendship like no other pair can. Librans can be snobbish, and Cancer may get their feathers ruffled easily. Cancer is based on emotion, and Libra is based on intellect.Cancer is a Water Sign, and Libra is an Air Sign. Libra approaches life as a pure mental exploration, while Cancer is more kinesthetic in their attitude. Cancer is happiest when their emotional needs are met, while Libra focuses on what things in life interest them from an intellectual standpoint. At times, these two may have a hard time understanding one another. Conflicts can arise if Cancer seems too crabby or Libra lets their charm lead rather than making intelligent, informed choices. Both need to learn that they view the world in different ways.


Cancerians can get very depressed the best thing to do is to give advice then step a side they have a way of pulling themselves back

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Answer 3

When Cancer and Libra form a friendship, they each supply what the other is lacking. Both Signs are looking for security in their close alliances, and they share an appreciation for beauty and luxury. The two can get along well if they share respect and a common goal. This friendship may start slowly, and at first the two may seem to have little in common. The more they get to know each other, however, the better each person will recognize and respect positive qualities in the other.

Cancer and Libra both appreciate emotional and intellectual resources, and they're both suckers for the sentimental. Emotion and happiness are important to both Signs, and they complement each other in many ways. Cancer appreciates Libra's charm and diplomacy, and Libra can tame the wild shrew Cancer becomes when they don't get their way. Libra appreciates the Cancerian love of nurturing and the security that comes with it. Additionally, Libra can help Cancer see the different sides of a situation, rather than making a decision without knowing all the facts. Conversely, Cancer can help cure Libra of their notorious indecision.

Cancer is ruled by the Moon and Libra by the Planet Venus. These friends share a love of home, hearth and family. Libra, especially, is about balance, and both share nurturing personalities and a desire for harmony. Together they are able to bring warmth and stability to their friendship like no other pair can. Librans can be snobbish, and Cancer may get their feathers ruffled easily. Cancer is based on emotion, and Libra is based on intellect.

Cancer is a Water Sign, and Libra is an Air Sign. Libra approaches life as a pure mental exploration, while Cancer is more kinesthetic in their attitude. Cancer is happiest when their emotional needs are met, while Libra focuses on what things in life interest them from an intellectual standpoint. At times, these two may have a hard time understanding one another. Conflicts can arise if Cancer seems too crabby or Libra lets their charm lead rather than making intelligent, informed choices. Both need to learn that they view the world in different ways.

Cancer and Libra are both Cardinal Signs. In this friendship, both will constantly struggle to be at the steering wheel. Libra's indecision may irritate Cancer. Libra is skilled at seeing all sides of a problem, so they are often able to accept Cancer's decisions as long as Cancer avoids getting Crabby. Both are initiators, which can, at times, be a struggle when their ideas and approach differ.

The best aspect of the Cancer-Libra friendly connection is their mutual appreciation of stability and balance. Their similar tastes and ambitions makes theirs a friendship of great dedication and harmony.

Answer 4

She needs from you as the cancer your empathy. What makes sense in her mind is a decision. She's probably upset about a disharmony in a relationship. Cancers are great at this type of thing. So as a friend you can tell her that she learned a great deal from what she has gone through and you can understand it and you will be there for her. But the best you can do is tell her to use her great mind and to rationalize it all and understand that she learned from it and to use that in the future. And that in the end she's better off from the experience. (even tho she will probably throw something at you and get very mad).
LIbras do respond to logic.. if you can incoperate logic with your natural empathy along with some chocolate and some good friends and humor she will respond.

Answer 5

believe it or not sometimes she is depressed about nothing really but in her mind she is and most times she can't tell u what it is.. Libras are confusing people at times but they are the best friends u can ask for. always loyal and true. what she need is someone to be patient with her while at the same time a little stern. the greatest fault of Libras is indecision and her spiritual goal is to learn how to overcome personal fears. she will come around. I'm a Libra too

Answer 6

They should listen and know when to ask questions but they shouldn't hover. If they don't get answers immediately, don't take it personally. Laugh and think happy thoughts. Get on the phone when there's an actual something to talk about with the Libra friend. Don't open mouth around Libra friend for NO reason.