Theres this boy who has been hating me since the 6th grade (we are both in 10th grade now) And is really good friends with some of my friends and so today one of my friends is having a B-day party and he is going to be there....... The problem is that he is mean, and its very uncomfortable being around someone who you don't like and that person doesn't like you back. Usually when he is around my friends I feel left out because he is always talking to them and is usually the center of attention and I am just quite and feel alone. So what am I suppose to do at the party? He is probably going to be the center of attention(as always) and he loves it when I feel left out! (I can tell he does)
2007-04-06 12:05:06 · 9 answers · asked by Just Ask :-) 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
1. Find value in helping at the party. Enjoy everything about the event. Look at patterns. colors, listen top conversation. Try to enjoy parts of the event.
Even if this guy is the center of attraction, you still must find ways outside this group to enjoy new people.
We all eventually move away from what we grew up with, so vary what you do and who you do it with.
If you decide not to go, plan a fabulous experience for yourself, one which will make you feel that your life as an individual is moving in the direction you want ti to regardless of what other think.
2007-04-06 12:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
UMMMM, well I would start just by coming out and asking him what the problem is, I mean if u guys are in 10th grade it is time for him to grow up and act right, life is too short for all this juvinile stuff. If you don't want to ask him or if you just don't care, become the center of attention, let it out girl, you can do it....
Maybe if you show out he will settle down a little.
2007-04-06 19:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by Life should come w/ instructions 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
So you're about 14? Tough time of life!
Go to the party if you want. Don't be intimidated by anyone. Realx and be yourself. If you are ignored by some, so what? Your true friends will always be glad to see you.
2007-04-06 19:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by kenai_sailor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just act like him being the center of attention is no big deal . then hell cool down hopefully. Maybe even try to ignore him!!!!!!!!I hope everything works out!
2007-04-06 19:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kels 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Act like there is nothing wrong. Talk to him and join in the fun. Laugh at his jokes. Make him like you.
2007-04-06 19:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl if you have a boyfriend just kindly bring him along with you if not invite a boy to go along with you hpoe this works have fun 4 me and you love pisces
2007-04-06 19:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by *Pices* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join in. Maybe he only hates you because he thinks you hate him. If you join in he'll see that you don't care about what he is doing.
2007-04-06 20:16:42 · answer #7 · answered by Suzaku 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the guy is insecure , just stare at him with a puzzled look and stay away from him
2007-04-06 19:15:24 · answer #8 · answered by paco 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
didn't you just ask this question??
well i already answered it on the other one, but good luck!!
2007-04-06 19:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by Zoney 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋