It was love at first sight but it was still a rocky start. We met at work and started dating but it wasn't long before she suspected me of cheating. I didn't even know she thought that until later on. All I knew is that she was ignoring me and started sleeping around. It was months later I learned she thought I cheated on her so I talked to her about it and cleared it all up. I didn't like that she started acting slutty but I overlooked that because I wanted to be with her. Things got much better and we've been engaged for a while now.
The red flag is that she is suspecting me of cheating again. There are some flirtatious girls at work and she's jumping to the conclusion that I'm cheating...but I'm not cheating. Is she looking for excuses to be promiscuous? I can't go through all of that again.
Should I cancel the wedding?
OR
Is there a way to test her?
Should I lead her to believe I am cheating and see what she does?
2007-04-06 11:33:21 · 3 answers · asked by curious george 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You two do not need to get married, first, you both sound as if your not ready to commit to one person, plus no trust there already. Your marriage won't last long at this rate, think how expensive a divorce can be. Why test her, if you think she will why bother. Find someone who trust you and you can them.
2007-04-06 15:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Did you read your own question?Should you lie to TEST her? If you can't trust her before the wedding...DONT GET MARRIED...get counselling...wait awhile but to get married like this will most likely mean divorce court in a year.
2007-04-06 23:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither you nor her are ready for something as serious as marriage and children.
Don't do it.
Save yourselves- and others around you- from such a charade...
2007-04-10 17:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋