Okay. I'm going to my senior prom with this guy that i've liked for a really long time. The problem is that his ex-girlfriend is trying to come to our prom too in the SAME color dress although she's not his date. I'm really worried that she's going to start some type of drama because I guess that she still likes him and I have no clue on what I should do. I'm afraid that she'll somehow win him over on that night and that I will become just a tag-along...
2007-04-06 06:39:25 · 10 answers · asked by Mya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
a few extra details that might help with an answer
- I asked him, he said yes explaining how he was thinking the same thing
- We're not together although I know for a fact that he likes me too
- The ex-girlfriend doesn't go to our school anymore and he's asked her several times NOT to show up at our prom
Thanks for the advice
2007-04-06 06:40:03 · update #1
you just go and be happy with him, dont worry about her you just have fun
2007-04-06 06:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by cutenhotchick12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about the other girl's prom dress color. Your goal is to have a good time and enjoy your very last dance at your senior prom- taking pictures, dancing the night away, and enjoying your friend's company. This is your last year in high school and you shouldn't have to worry about his ex-girlfriend. It is over between them and he's made that very clear to her. She will be the one that is the tag-along, not you. Talk to your date about her and hear what he has to say. If he's not worried about, you don't worry about it. Have a good time. Hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-04-06 06:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the prom. Have a ball.... and agree ahead of time with your date that you both will totally ignore her. It will drive her nuts....
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Side note.... when my daughter started dating her husband his ex was not a happy camper. See she was a year or two older than him and my daughter is 9 years younger then he is. Drove the woman crazy. She even called me lying to me in the hope that I would break them up.... Little did she know I'd known the man longer than she had and knew what she was saying was a lie... in the end she wound up hanging up on me and left them alone...
Ex's can be the pits. But if you either treat them with kindness and do not rise to the bait they get tired and go on....
So just ignore her Prom night.... Stay on the opposite side of the dance floor and have a great time...
2007-04-06 06:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it, she lost him, and now you have him. Obviously he thinks you're gonna look way prettier in the dress than her, that's why he's goin with you and not her. Put some glamour on, and get rid of the worries. Proms are supposed to be fun, so enjoy your time! And if she tries anything, just slap her and explain everything.
2007-04-06 06:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by kytigirl200 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she come and start some drama get wrong wit her if she steal ur boyfriend u can be hurt but don't let that phase u for a long time just let him go and get another one and live ur life and show him that it don't hurt u and if the girl come to ur face or hit u or bump u just start taggin in on her and just get ur revenge and leave it at that i bet u she won't mess wit u nomore and show her who the boss but if ur a lover not a fighter good luck for u or u can try to talk to her if u want to but like i said goodluck for u .
2007-04-06 07:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by jazzybyrd14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
merely Take someone As A Mate, someone That Your female friend is conscious; So She would not sense disillusioned Or imagine That Somethings Goings On. verify you tell Your female friend Your merely Going As associates seen As She isn't Allowed To Be Invited (:
2016-12-03 09:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by kasee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes asked her not to come,then she probably wont win him over. and he is coming with you.If he didnt want to be your datehe would have gone withher. just relax and enjoy your special night.if she tries to start drama then just ignore her and tell her to back off. but mostly-relax! the dress color dosnt matter, its that you WONT be the tagalong-she will. and she'll be at your prom, butyoull be the one having fun. secret to having fun- IGNORE HER!!!! :)
2007-04-06 06:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stalker much??
yeah it could end up as a problem her coming
but not her winning him over at all
she`ll most deff try to stir up drama
with him
but as long as your there...
nothing will happen.
2007-04-06 06:44:40 · answer #8 · answered by lillsz ツ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the prom and ignore her. dont let her know you are bothered. thats what she wants. she is the one jealous of you! have fun!
2007-04-06 06:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Emily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, tell her to bug off. if that doesn't work, ask him to tell her. if she tries to start any drama, tell her to save it cuz you dont wanna hear it.
2007-04-06 06:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by skittles_luver_2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋