2007-04-06 06:16:22 · 22 answers · asked by Nila 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe you should speak with her about this.
then you can find out what is wrong.
2007-04-06 06:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
*Hmm...well if she never asks for sex, that can mean numerous things..whether they're good or bad.
. I mean I don't "ask" for sex from my b/f...but that's just because I might not always 'feel' like it. Or I just don't want to have sex! So it's not always a bad thing. Relax.
*And if she's always cold (mean) then yes, you should do the obvious and TALK to her and find out what the hell is going on with her and why she is acting that way towards you.
~Also is there something you have been doing w/ someone else behind her back...and maybe she secretly knows about it? That could be another potential reason she is being so standoffish with sex? I don't know....but I am NOT accusing YOU of doing anything...I was just asking.
*Or do you secretly watch porn or go to strip clubs or another girl in your life? All of those things...(if you are doing any of them) and she knows about it, could be causing her resentment towards you...especially in the bedroom.
~I mean she could also just have a low sex drive, and maybe she's stressed out so she's moody and taking it out on you? (Not her intention) but she does it unknowingly. OR she could be cheating on you, so she sees no reason in having sex with you.
**It could be a number of things, and I am sorry if my ideas were a little blunt and forward. But I am just being honest with you about what the potential reasons could be of why she is acting that way towards you.**
2007-04-06 06:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you're actually pretty lucky. Iv'e been married for 27, have 3 awesome sons, I do most is not all of the work around the house. I handle the all the bills, major home work/repairs, meals, yard work, and the cleaning, laundry, dishes etc. I haven't had sex with my wife in over 3 years and have been pissed off for more than 8. It only gets worse.
2016-05-18 21:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by felipa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women need to be warmed up first and are more romantic than the male species--so set the scene with some candles and soft music> Start out by petting her and saying sweet things to her and I guarantee you she will be more receptive. It will be worth the time and effort for the results--lol--and afterwards hold her and cuddle a bit and tell her how much you love her. The after glow is important to a woman
2007-04-06 06:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by luminous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication, Communication!
2007-04-06 06:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure. You didn't say your age or hers. She may have issues that are keeping her from enjoying sex. Whatever the case may be, talk lovingly to her, try to understand and do go to a marraige councellor. It's never too late.
2007-04-06 06:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her about it. This is one of our "wifely" duties. There are options for you. Sex therapists would be the first step. There are also testosterone creams out for women with low libidos.
2007-04-06 06:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by PhantomRN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why. Don't blame yourself.
1. ask her...and listen to the answer without being judgemental.
2. go to couples therapy.
if she's not willing to go consider going yourself.
3. don't blame yourself. Nothing goes wrong in any marriage because ONE person is wrong. It always takes two to tango.
2007-04-06 06:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by SUZE The Pink Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get her some Womens Porn ( Erotic Romance )
Have a few drinks & get her to watch some porn with you..
Buy her some "toys"...
Have her get a little more exercise and lose a couple pounds..
You start keeping her privates shaved for her...
2007-04-06 06:21:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her - that's the only way to find out what's going on
2007-04-06 06:20:13 · answer #10 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start asking her for sex if you want to get any.
2007-04-06 06:24:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋