My ex girlfriend and I split up around 2 months ago,and she finished with me due to stress at the time from other things. We still remained friends,but I always wanted more,and tried so hard to get over her. Yesterday, she invited me around her place to watch a dvd and have lunch. We watch the DVD and midway through I find myself holding her hand, and her not pushing me off. Then we play around for a bit, and I end up kissing her, she doesn't pull me away, and we carry on. This goes on for the next hour or so, she says she isn't over me, and misses me and really likes me, i say i miss her and like her too, and that maybe we shud get back together,but a slower relationship this time.she agrees,and i leave later. then i get a message saying that she hates me, that i realised she had feelings for me, and i shud have left it,& not come on to her! / Now i feel stupid,& she says she wants to go cold, as best for all, as her emotions are shattered!
2007-04-06 04:57:16 · 10 answers · asked by dafadf a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She's a nut. All girls are nutty but some are worse than others. You're better off without her. If she doesn't even know what she wants, how the hell are you supposed to know?
2007-04-06 05:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still has feelings for you, but is scared of getting hurt again. So instead of accepting your mutual attraction she is lashing out at you.
She invited you over, and did nothing to discourage you until after you had left. Just try to be patient and understanding. Let her know that you really care and want to try to work things out. But just realize you are going to have to rebuild the trust you lost earlier.
2007-04-06 12:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either shes depressed about something or she may be confused on what she wants. Do you think she may be with someone else and when she misses you she has you to come over feel what she has missed and like it so she acted that way.She may be with someone too and When That some one comes around and you are not there she acts like she doesn't want you to make that person think she doesn't want to be with you to make him jealous. Find out on that first because you don't need someone like that it will make you depressed and confused.
2007-04-06 12:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by shmamie02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had a hard time getting over you. She relizes that if she just gets back together with you, just like that, whatever she whated to change, wont because you think that if you just kisse her she will take you back.. Look she loves you, but you have to show her she means enough for you to change.
2007-04-06 12:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by Kinka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW I don't think she knows what she wants she sounds mean, the only thing that i can think of is that she got caught up in the moment when you were there with her then she changed her mind you know? I think you're wasting your time with her : (
2007-04-06 13:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats kinda hard to answer but i think maybe you should give her her space for a while she should respect that and then on day she'll see that and respect that you gave her her space and if she still has feelings for you like she says then she will come back
2007-04-06 12:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by martinfan#1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r going to have to cut off with her completely. Shes playing games with u.
No friendship at all with her. It sounds like she just uses u.
2007-04-06 12:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by NickyNawlins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In time you two will probably be able to be friends again. Just let her be for now.
2007-04-06 12:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by acorn922 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a player!!! Maybe the message wasn't from her AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!...Trust only what she ever told you w/ her own sweet mouth!!!!!.....
2007-04-06 12:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dammm dood...
im going through that right now... myself
its heLL
2007-04-06 12:01:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋