My friend is allways insulting me whats should I do?

Question

She is all ways saying that what I'm wearing looks ugly, that when I sing I suck, that she is way better than me. She is sooo full of hershelf and when ever I ask her to stop insulting me she says she just says the truth and that I whould'nt want her to lie whould I

Answer 1

SHES RIGHT.

Answer 2

Tell her the truth is that she is jealous. Why would a friend say they are better than you instead of encouraging you to improve, if that's what she felt you needed. She is not a good friend at all. I say why put up with this toxic friendship? Maybe she'll realize what kind of friend you are when you stop putting up with her insults.

Answer 3

This is what I think is going on. She is so jealous of you that she needs to insult you. If you have already asked her to stop and she hasn't, she is not going to change. You need to look for positive people to be around and end the friendship (if that is what you can call it) with her now. ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND NEVER LET SOMEONE BRING YOU DOWN!!!

Answer 4

She's not your friend, she's your boss. You are her assistant - one that she can treat like crap just because she can. Trouble is - unless you're getting paid to take this and you need the money, you can change this situation.

I'd start by telling her the truth about how she's making you feel. She wouldn't want you to lie about it......LOL!

Answer 5

I have the exact same problem my friends name is Jamie so anytime lets just say i made a reallycute art picture or something and i ask her if she likes it and she will say something like eww.thats so ugly and i will say i think it is cute and then she would say u think everything is cute so then i say well you are ugly better. and then she dosent sat anything so it works for me if she wants to play hardball i can play hardball! lol :D glad i could help!

Answer 6

Sometimes in order for someone to feel "powerful" or in control they put others down. but the real question is.. do you believe what shes telling you?? because that is all that matters. so what if you wear clothes that she thinks is ugly.. if you think its a cute outfit then stick up for yourself.. be like, "so?? we obviously have different taste." or if you want her to not know how to take what your saying... say " [her name], when it comes to clothes you know exactly what looks bad." then look up and down at her clothes in a smart remark. lol. but you dont have to be mean. remember, dont take her comments too seriously. just believe in what you think about yourself :D

Answer 7

Yes she should tell you the trueth but she shouldn't be so mean about it. And if she is being mean like that then she really isn't a friend at all. And you should tell her that if she is a friend she needs to treat you nicer and if she can't then you don't want to be friends any more.

Answer 8

Doesn't sound like areal friend to me. Tell her that these things she says and does really hurt your feelings and you would like her to stop. If she continues with her behavior I'm sorry to say she's not a good friend; time to move on.

Answer 9

tell your friend that she is coming on to strong. she thinks she is helping you by telling you the truth, but he is doing it in a negative way. stick up for yourself. tell her you dont like it when she insults you. she may be trying to give you constructive criticism, but is doing it innapropriately. if she is your real friend she will understand and stop huritng you

Answer 10

Maybe shes not a real friend if she is insulting you like that. Or you need to sit down and tell your friend that you don't like it when she says that to you.

Answer 11

Find a new friend, because this girl is no friend. Friends build you up, not tear you down. They can be honest about things without being nasty and cutting you down.