have you had an Abortion?

Question

Who has had an abortion? How did you feel? Did it hurt? Do you regret it? Which method did you choose? Which is the best method?

Answer 1

i had 1 wen i was 16, took a tablet, it didnt hurt but i do regret now as everyone tells me i wud be a great mother

Answer 2

Abortions do hurt some people. It is similar to the cramps you suffer when having a baby. Many are put to sleep for it, while some stay awake.(Those that can tolerate the pain, and it is less expensive.) Psychologically it is something that you will regret later.

I believe most people use the Suction method for this, but I feel that people should really give this some thought, if they are thinking about it. I know some people feel desperate in that situation, but think about giving the child to a loving home. I think anyone should also talk to their medical doctor before making this decision, because hemorrhaging can occur after one. They can be dangerous.

Answer 3

I have never had an abortion, but any women's clinic who performs legal abortions can help you decide on the best method to abort an unwanted pregnancy. There's the morning after pill, RU486 (which is a set of expensive pills), and then there's medical abortion which requires a brief "surgery."

The method you choose will depend on how far along you are in the pregnancy. For instance, one of my local clinics will let you use RU486 for up to seven weeks. They do medical abortions up to seventeen weeks. Price can also be a factor.

Best thing to do is call your local women's clinic, set up an appointment, and discuss all of your options with a doctor or nurse. They can help you.

Although abortion is (obviously) a touchy subject, PLEASE remember that whatever decision is right for YOU is the best and right decision. Don't let ANYbody talk you out of or into something you don't want. Your life, your body.

Answer 4

As for the men who are answering these questions, stay out of it... this is her body and her choice. What if someday you 14 yr old daughter gets pregnant.... do u want her to raise a baby when she is still a baby. All of the women who are answering rudely and being awful... you should be ashamed and i am ashamed to be a women when i read these answers from other ladies. abortion may be wrong in your eyes but it is not ur body, ur life, or ur choice so leave ur rude comments to urself. I am offended this little girl is asking for guidence.... u really think this 14 yr old should raise a child when she is a child herself? THink about it put urself in her shoes because i guarntee that a majority of u who are running ur mouth would choose to have an abortion at 14 if you got pregnant. Have some respect for others. If u dont have anything nice or positive to say, then keep ur mouth shut.
HONEY DO WHAT IS RIGHT FOR U FORGET ALL OF THESE NEGATIVE IGNORANT PEOPLE! ABORTION IS THE RIGHT CHOICE FOR SOME PEOPLE!!!!!

Answer 5

i didnt but my best friend did. she used the vacum method where they suck the baby out. she kind of regrets it but at the same time she is ok because she couldnt have it cuz she is only 19 years old. she did it here in miami. fl in an abortion clinic. its was like $500 and it only took about 30 minutes.

Answer 6

I have. It is painful. I was 5 weeks gestation and I had surgery to remove the embryo/fetus. I do not regret it, because I know it was the best choice for me at the time. But would never do it again. I think surgery is the best choice because the pill, RU-486, can sometimes leave remains in there and you'd have to get a D&C to remove it.

Answer 7

Silent No More Awareness is a Campaign whereby Christians make the public aware of the devastation abortion brings to women and men. The campaign seeks to expose and heal the secrecy and silence surrounding the emotional and physical pain of abortion.

http://www.silentnomoreawareness.org/


For a Pregnancy Support Center in your area call:
PROLIFE Across AMERICA's Hot line.....1-800-366-7773
The National Life Center................1-800-848-LOVE (5683)

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Answer 8

i was 17 when i got pregnant and a senior in hs planning on going to college the following fall. I seriously considered it so . I decided to keep the child. As I write this, 4 years later, she is cracking up while she is playing and making me smile so BIG. Oh yeah I am graduating from college on May 12 and will have two degrees! (of course I had lots of family support) .

Answer 9

Hurt, grieveful, painfully lost and time heals but you never forget. If I had to do it over again, I would never do it.
No "best method".
My 15 yr old step daughter asked me for $1400. to help pay for a partial birth abortion, and I refused. She delivered a 3 lb baby girl within days of this request and I am so glad I encouraged her not to do it.

Answer 10

I had one when I was 16. I am 37 now and regret it more now than I did then.
Abortion is flat out murder. Why punish an innocent life for mistakes made by a "rational" human being?
I still live with my bad choice daily.
Thank God I was blessed many years later with a beautiful son and another one on the way now.