a young girl becomes pregnant and she decides to have it and give it up for adoption to a couple that can"t have children do you praise her or put her down
2007-04-06 02:48:51 · 24 answers · asked by Linda K 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Not my business to praise or condemn. She made the best decision for her. Her best decision isn't going to be everyone else's best decision. She did what was right for her, it's none of anyone's business.
2007-04-06 02:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lilith 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I would definitely praise and commend her. Putting your baby up for adoption is a difficult decision and I consider it a heroic action. A precious human being's life has been saved and the aching hearts and arms of a loving couple have been eased. While the birth mom must go through a hard few months with the pregnancy, labor, and delivery, she will not have to suffer with the long-term affects of an abortion. It is a win-win-win situation for everyone. My close friend's daughter had a baby at 17. She choose the adoptive parents for her baby and was able to meet with them. As part of the adoption agreement, my friend was able to see her grandson until he turned 3 and now will receive pictures and letters from the adoptive parents until he is old enough to make the decision on his own to make contact with her. They speak freely and honestly to their son about his adoption and have from his birth. The little boy is growing up to be a loved, cared for, wonderful little person, such a blessing to all who know him.
2007-04-06 10:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by sevenofus 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Praise her!!!
Her being strong enough to carry a child and then give it to a family who cant have their own children is something that is a total blessing. Its a hard thing to do and alot of girls/women take the easy way out and just have an abortion when their are so many people that want kids but cant have them.
2007-04-06 10:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by chocolatelvr4eva 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I praise her for having the courage to give her child to strangers. I am sure this will follow her the rest of her life. Abortion is wrong and will cause her to feel bad about herself in the long run. If this young lady has become pregnant and decides to give it to a loving home, I say May GOD bless you for blessing someone else.
By the way, this should be a lesson to all females. If you are not married, then you have no need for children. If you are young then you risk the chance of living in poverty along with your child if you are not properly educated. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE young ladies who read this,wait until you're married to become parents!!! You Gentlemen out there, be just that Gentlemen. Respect a lady enough to make her your wife and not some sex toy. You will reap many blessings from this decision.
2007-04-06 10:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by mrsbasemore 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Definitely Praise!
She made her own choice, brought joy to a family, and can live her life.
Even if she chose abortion, I don't think anyone should put her down. It's her body, her life & her choice.
And I don't even like abortion...
I don't understand why this is titled 'adopt or abortion', because it states that she already decided to put the baby up for adoption..?
2007-04-06 10:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by ohsnapbeth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would absolutely praise her for making the best choice for her, her baby, and the adoptive parents. I have cousin who got pregnant out of wedlock. She was 19. She decided to put the baby up for adoption. The little boy ended up being adopted by a loving couple, who also turned out to be good friends of the extended family. A few months later, she met a wonderful man, married him and they now have a child together. She couldn't be happier, and knows that she did the best thing she could have for her son.
2007-04-06 09:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by e_imommy 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I would praise her, my husband and I cannot have children, ever. There is no chance for us to biologically conceive, so this girl is our only chance to become parents. I commend her for choosing life for the baby. I just wish she was real instead of hypothetical, then I could offer to adopt her baby.
2007-04-06 12:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by JJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
praise her, if shes too young to bring baby up then good for her making the right decision to have baby adopted and going to a loving home, at least when shes ready she can have another baby when older, childless couples cant
2007-04-06 09:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥™Tia™♥♥ 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I personally would praise her for making such a goodhearted choice! There are many good people out there who can't concieve and have to wait years to adopt, so to offer such people the chance at parenthood, and to offer life to the baby is an awesome thing!
2007-04-06 09:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by ami_707 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Praise her!!! You should NEVER make her feel bad for putting her child up for adoption. It takes a strong person to make that decision.
2007-04-06 09:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by poofheadvt 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Praise her - for making such a self-less decision for what's best for her child.
A woman who was unable to give her children the life that she wanted them to have placed them for adoption - and made my husband and I two very happy people. She gave us a chance to parent when we thought there was no hope left.
I highly respect all birthparents who have placed their children for adoption.
2007-04-06 10:12:45 · answer #11 · answered by onerockinmamato2 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋