2007-04-06 02:08:59 · 20 answers · asked by Erika D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't say "NO" to your spouse when sex is wanted but you can excuse for a little postponement if needed to get better sex satisfaction like when you were very tired and very much sleepy otherwise you have to proceed.
2007-04-07 19:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by PJA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me when I really don't feel in the mood, but I "let" him anyway, because he's aware I don't really feel like it, he's so gentle and takes it so slowly that in the end it's the best sex I have. Honestly, I'm telling the truth, it's ALWAYS better.
2007-04-06 02:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by esmall 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on how badly I'm not in the mood. If he's been "good" (did some housework without being asked, took me to dinner, that kind of thing) i'll just roll over and let him at it. Sometimes this is the only way to get him to leave me alone!! Not that I mind him being affectionate, but when I'm trying to sleep, sometimes i'll just give in just to get him to leave me alone.
2007-04-06 02:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by Some Lady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although that rarely happens. I just tell him, I'm not in the mood baby. Then we curl up close and watch a movie.
2007-04-06 02:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this problem often.I just tell my spouse the truth and let her know that it isn't her it is me.I am going to talk with my Dr. to see if there is anything I can take
2007-04-06 02:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by Heather T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly i will give him a bj ,so he is satisfied and that makes me feel good that i loved him enough to ensure he got his needs met . just because i was not in the mood i do not take it out on him.... and i am rewarded for being his loving wife...
2007-04-06 02:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I let him try to turn me on. That works once in a while. Or sometimes I help him out either with my hand or orally. Sometimes, though, I say "sorry but it ain't gonna happen" and he has to fend for himself.
2007-04-06 02:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by Eowyn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say, "I'm really tired, Honey. Tomorrow night, definitely". I just kiss him goodnight and roll over, he'll get the hint.
2007-04-06 02:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell him "no thanks." He has no choice but to accept that answer. You do need to occasionally compromise if it's a constant problem, or let him go, but he has to be fair too. Marriage is all about compromise and mutual respect.
2007-04-06 02:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be honest, tell them your not in the mood but tell them why so they dont think your just blowin them off
2007-04-06 07:30:29 · answer #10 · answered by Heather W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋