ladies , i really dont understand you or your sexuality?

Question

first i am not kidding i am very seriuse
if i ask any woman about sex she tell that women are not like men they are not visual and not so physical and not so interest in manly features or man's body parts they are emotional and mental ( althouth men also are emotional)
but if women are like that , why they choose men to be mates and why they attracted to men only? i mena if some one treat them well and take care about them and love them...etc i mean give them all emotional needs regardless of gender , is that mean that they will be sexual attracted to him or her?
regardless of his or her gender or physical features , and is that make for example her best friend sexy or parents...etc?
and why women dont have sex with eachothers for example specially some studies tell that women aroused visually by eachothers and most women fantasize about being with another girl..and somethings like these , so why they dont do this with a good kind personality girl , why most women choose men ?

do you only prefer men for just somethings like , taking care of you,security,power,care your costs,kids,...etc which another woman cannot does? is that only make you prefer sex with man than woman?

Answer 1

I believe that God created men and women to be attracted and respond to one another. There are outside features that we see 'first' in our immediate attraction to one another, and that causes the couple who might want to continue to 'get to know' the other. In this, you find your attraction in your beliefs, your likes and dislikes, the things that you find are common to both of you (sports, movies, etc.) You talk and as men and women talk together, they determine if they like each other. Picture this: a man is looking at a woman's body parts (first) her face, her waist, her hips, her hair, her lips: things that are sexually attractive to him. A woman looks at his hands, his face, his eyes, his teeth, how he talks, what he says, his jokes, then she considers, his job, his home, his mom, his friends (competition), his honesty (does he call when he says he will) later on. Sex, in my opinion is always first on the man's mind and maybe some women, but women like to 'get to know you first'. For women, the sexual act is ALL WE HAVE TO GIVE. Once that is gone - the man, however crude he may be, can move on to some other girl. It's a chase. The man who stays longer, is the man who has to wait for the sex. (unless the girl is giving money, or something else he needs in order to stay). Generally, women are initially attracted to other women as a curiosity. Sometimes in play and learning about our bodies, girls may engage in a sexual exploration - but the over all stance is that a female wants the male. It's in the genes and workings of our creation. Men - the big strong hunter, kills and takes home the meat to his woman. Woman - the weaker vessel - stays home and cares for the children and cooks the meat the big strong hunter brings home and takes him to bed every night to show him how much she loves and appreciates him. Man - beats his chest at how many children he has produced and how his woman loves him. Makes him feel big and strong and able to conquer the world. (this is not how it is - but it is how it 'WAS' - just read your history)

Answer 2

Most of us are wired to be attracted to the opposite sex, otherwise there would be no reason for sex to exist.

Answer 3

well how will life go on? obvioulsy the differnt sexes are atacted to each other and its basically caledd instincts.

Answer 4

it's called being a heterosexual. It was the way God intended everyone to be, not a homo.