do porn addicts eventually cheat on their partners ?

Question

do porn addicts eventually end up cheating on their wife/girlfriend ? is it possible for a porn addict to care about or even love their partner ?

Answer 1

my husband is the same .. he looks at it every chance he gets . if i leave the room for 5 minutes and come back and look at the computer history , hes looked at over 40 pictures. its not a one time thing, its a daily thing. not only does he look at it, but when i show him the history pages and say i know he does it, he then says he didnt look at it ( even though we are both staring at the proof ) i think most porn addicts are also compulsive liars .
but to answer your question i dont think they really do love their wife or girlfriend because they are to selfish to care . and yes i think people who cant go a day without looking at porn and devote their life to porn are more likely to cheat, rather than someone who isn;t messed up like that

Answer 2

I feel the exact same way about pornography as you do. I think it is a disgusting and degrading thing, and yes.. it does ruin many relationships. Sadly though, there's really not much at all that we can do to put an end to that sort of thing. The reality is, there will always be women/girls out there who are willing to pose for those pictures, while knowing what those photos are being used for.. and by whom. It is a very disgusting industry, but as long as men (and women) continue to look at it.. it will continue. The same goes for the videos. If people weren't buying them.. they wouldn't make them. The simple truth is, porn will always be around. But if you do come across a photo of a girl who appears to be underage, or something that seems like it was taken without the consent of the female involved.. then you can call the police, and notify them of what you've seen.. and tell then your suspicions, and let them see what can be done. But to do that, you would almost certainly have to troll the porn sites.. which i seriously doubt you want to do. As long as the participants are 18 or older, it is completely legal, and there is nothing we, or the police can do to stop it. It's a sad truth.. but that's just the way it is. Honestly.. I have a hard time understanding what anyone sees in those people on those videos or in the pictures. I mean, in all seriousness.. they are so incredibly photoshopped, and the acts are "staged" for the most part. There is nothing even almost "sexy" about what they do. It's just disgusting.. I have no respect whatsoever for people who choose to do that sort of thing. This one of the few topics that I could go on and on about for hours. Like I said, I feel exactly the same as you do... but the reality is, there is nothing we can do about it.

Answer 3

Yes, no good to health.


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Answer 4

Where do you get this "addict" stuff? And what does erotica per se have to do with infidelity?

First of all, relationships are not destroyed by "things" but by people. Best example I can give you is that phrase used by the NRA,"guns don't kill people..." And erotica doesn't destroy relationships. Any more than doughnuts can be blamed for making people fat.

Millions of men AND women enjoy erotica, either as literature or video, and they lead very happy lives together, and have no desire to be unfaithful.

What someone may do because he or she has no self-control or sense of comitttment, that's a personality defect - not the fault of something like a web site, a DVD, or a strip club.

The world is full of "addicts;" people who lack self-control. They make it hard for the rest of us who have control.

Answer 5

You know what will eventually make them cheat on their wife or girlfriend? The wife or girlfriend always putting them down for who they are and accusing them of being selfish and cheating. Trying to make them feel insignificant and wrong for what they enjoy. It is possible for some one who enjoys visual stimulation to love their spouse they love them more in fact when they receive unconditional love and acceptance from them.
That's a silly question it is like asking if it is possible for tobacco addict to truly love their partner. Just because they have things they enjoy that not everyone else enjoys.

Answer 6

What the hell is a porn "Addict".
Lets be careful how we throw the term addiction around.
There is not much physical reaction when porn is removed from someones life.

On the flip side, pornography is actually the method men use in lieu of cheating. It is a method of funneling that instinctive
need to spread the seed into a monogamous relationship.
Be relieved that it is porn he might seek instead of another warm body.

Answer 7

The fact that a man likes to watch porn has absolutely nothing to do with cheating..It is a proven fact that men in general are more visually stimulated.Sound's like you have some insecurities that you need to work on..

Answer 8

Porn addicts! Haha, what kind of loser are you married too? Now, if your husband just looks at porn from time to time, he's not an addict and you are over reacting. This does happen especially in religious circles.

Answer 9

Not exactly. There are cases where someone turns to porn because they know very well they can't get in bed with someone else.

Answer 10

hey it depends on the guy and how much you trust him and how addicted he is to porn but talk to him if he doesn't know how you feel about him watching porn and see what he has to say