English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

let me clarify. It is legal for me to buy a woman dinner, go see a movie, take her to the disco and still may not get any.

If I was to just give a prostitute the money I would save alot of time and be sure of the outcome. And would probably be cheaper.

(I had to ask this just just to see the reactions)

2007-04-06 00:13:37 · 7 answers · asked by lbfm4me 3 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Other - Cultures & Groups

7 answers

Ever since the Chinese declared ‘To get rich is to be glorious,’ women without connections, brain power or money have been using the only asset available to them for quick money. Equipped with a room, a bed, a supply of condoms, a red light—and voila—instant brothel. . . . These girls can make much more money at $30 a customer, than $4 per day in the factories. As is (the case) in almost every underdeveloped country!” according to the International Sex and Red-Light Guide.
Sold for $30, the guide “instructs” men on where to find cheap sex around the world. This is a business venture, according to the authors, where the only principle is getting the most for your money. “If one so chooses to use her body in this manner, in lieu of social slavery at the hands of poverty employers, and men are willing to pay them more than slave labour wages, so be it. If it is not your body and not your life, it is also not your business. Until [someone] can correct the whole world’s economic condition, as well as the overpopulation problem, someone has to pay the bills.”
But who? The poorest, the most vulnerable? There is no denying that the sex industry has taken on international dimensions, recognized as an economic motor for many countries, particularly in Asia. The irony is that prostitution is not entirely legal. Would legalization reduce some of the inequalities and abuse suffered by the women involved? Or by legitimizing prostitution, would we reverse decades of work to promote human rights and improve the status of women?

An acrimonious debate
On the surface this looks like a rehashing of a timeless debate. But it isn’t. The question is no longer about morality—is prostitution a vice and are those involved evil or somehow lacking in judgment? We now ask: is prostitution a form of exploitation to be abolished or an occupation to be regulated?
This has proven to be one of the most divisive issues among women’s groups around the world. There are basically two camps—those seeking to eradicate prostitution, like the non-governmental Coalition Against Trafficking in Women and prostitutes’ rights groups, primarily based in the Netherlands, the United States and England, who view the women involved as “sex workers”. There is considerable acrimony between the two. For example, the Coalition maintains that these groups generally represent the interests of the “pimps and procurers”. In rebuttal, the rights’ groups maintain that the abolitionists are locked away in the ivory towers of academic feminism, cut off from the day-to-day realities facing prostitutes.
The dividing line between the two camps lies in distinctions between so-called “free” and “forced” prostitution. Abolitionists generally maintain that the vast majority of women are forced into prostitution, while the sex workers insist that this is not necessarily the case. But as both point out, for different reasons, these distinctions oversimplify the issues. The 12-year-old Nepalese girl sold to an Aids-infested brothel in India clearly never consented to this form of slavery. The drug-addict in New York who must fulfil a quota of clients to get a fix from her pimp is not free to make decisions concerning her body. But what of the Ukrainian woman who looses her job and decides to go to Germany to work as a maid but ends up in a brothel?
For the Coalition, “the distinctions between free and forced prostitution obscure the powerful structural socio-economic conditions—like poverty, marginalization, lack of opportunities and prior sexual abuse—that often drive women and children straight into prostitution situations,” says Aurora Javate de Dios of the Coalition’s Asia-Pacific branch. “Economic crisis, natural disasters, political unrest and conflict situations make women and children more vulnerable and easy prey to sex traffickers and recruiters. We see this everywhere, especially in developing countries of the South.” For Javate de Dios, laws aimed at distinguishing between free and forced prostitution will never recognize the complex dynamics involved. The most they can possibly do is to identify the most extreme forms of coercion, while ignoring the impact of poverty and implicitly legitimizing patriarchal relationships.
The line between free and forced prostitution also wears thin on the opposite side of the spectrum, according to Lin Chew, a former spokesperson for the Foundation Against Trafficking in Women, a non-governmental organization based in the Netherlands. “When does anyone make free decisions, especially in the labour market? A man who works in a chemical factory, whose wages will never get him over the poverty line—did he choose this way of life? And what about the woman whose background never afforded her the chance to develop any skills? Why should this question of free choice only apply to prostitution?”
There is, however, one point on which the two camps agree: decriminalization. It’s time to repeal laws used to punish prostitutes in seeking to protect public decency and order. Beyond this, the two camps diverge. For abolitionist groups like the Coalition, women are victims, but anyone who profits from their exploitation deserves punishment. For the prostitutes’ rights groups, however, you cannot help sex workers by forcing their employers underground. But you can try to level the playing field—that is ensure that these workers are protected from occupational hazards and receive fair treatment. This is probably the latest chapter in the debate: the role of the state.
Here we find two camps within the prostitutes’ rights groups. One branch pushes for complete decriminalization, that is no regulation of the industry, while another supports legalization. “Legalized” prostitution refers to a wide range of situations. It can simply mean that prostitution is not against the law. More often the case, though, legalization is synonymous for regulation, with laws enforced by police. Licenses can be issued, for example, with mandatory health-checks. Zoning laws may set up “eros centres” removed from residential areas. If brothels are illegal, it might be an offence for two prostitutes to work out of the same house. Anti-pimping laws may oblige a prostitute’s lover to prove that he or she is financially independent. Standards can also be set for the working space, assuring for example, sufficient lighting, quality mattresses, fire precautions and air supply. Laws can assure that a woman is not obligated to drink alcohol with a client. While appropriate tax brackets can be set up for earnings and rights to health insurance and retirement ensured.
In theory, these regulations are intended to protect prostitutes. But some do just the opposite, according to sex worker groups like the US-based COYOTE, which calls for complete decriminalization of prostitution. Government-run brothels “would be the prostitute’s worst nightmare,” according to a COYOTE position paper. “I can think of nothing worse than having to work for a bureaucrat—especially in the sex industry—where there is already a long and well documented history of abuse by the police. . . . Perhaps brothels are an ideal situation for the male clients—a man gets to go to a place where all the women are lined up waiting to be chosen—but it is an extremely uncomfortable, degrading situation for women. . . .”
As for licenses, they “do nothing to ensure the safety of either the customer or the prostitute. That is not to say that women shouldn’t have frequent medical checks—they should,” according to COYOTE, in reference to complaints that women are treated like cattle by health inspectors in poorly equipped facilities. “Just as a restaurant will lose its reputation if the food isn’t fresh and its customers become ill, so will the free market regulate the health standards of working women.”
For the Coalition Against Trafficking in Women, the debate over the role of the state is simply a way of stonewalling the real issues. The term “sex worker” doesn’t dignify the woman involved, it dignifies the pimps, procurers and traffickers. “What prostituted women must endure in their ‘employment’ is what in other contexts would be the accepted definition of sexual harassment and sexual abuse in the workplace,” according to Janice Raymond, of the Coalition. “Does the fact that a fee is paid transform this abuse into a ‘job’ known as ‘commercial sex work’?”

Courses in sex work
Raymond points to courses, available for a fee in the Netherlands, on how to do sex work, covering everything from role-playing sessions in bars to and information on tax breaks. “What young girl would you encourage to become ‘skilled’ in this trade? Why is so much attention paid to promoting the ‘trade’ and nothing done to help women get out of it? Because its easier to believe that prostitution is a choice for these women. . . . If the issue of choice must be raised, let it be raised in the context of the men who buy the sex of prostitution. Why do men choose to buy the bodies of millions of women and children, call it sex, and seemingly get tremendous pleasure literally over their bought bodies?”

2007-04-06 00:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by bornonaplatein1988 4 · 0 2

Even though I think the whole thing is gross and I wish it just didn't exist, I honestly can't come up with a good reason why it should be illegal. If it were legal and made as safe as possible, I don't see anything 'wrong' with it at all. The only issue would be a moral one but people who hardly know each other are having sex all the time and that's not illegal.

2007-04-06 00:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by Pico 7 · 0 1

You don't respect women. If I go out on a date with a guy and he spends money ofr the dinner and movie and whatnot I'm not going to give up crap, unless I'm in a committed relationship, because I love and respect myself, my body, and my morals. Most women can't be brought, that's cheap and nasty.
Think about what if your mom was in that kind of arrangement....

2007-04-06 03:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by Annabella Stephens 6 · 0 0

Going on a date has nothing to do with prostitution.

2007-04-06 00:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by pepper 7 · 1 0

prostitute & on date , both is different.
prostitute is legal in some country

2007-04-06 00:35:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Nevada it is legal, as well as Germany and several other countries.

2016-05-18 03:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by dionna 3 · 0 0

as with most things it makes it more fun if its illegal.....

2007-04-06 00:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

fedest.com, questions and answers