so me and my x broke up a couple weeks ago and thru it all i would tell him to get bak together and he would just treat me like crap. id call him and if he got mad hed hang up. childish i kno... n stupid in my part too... but now i wanna make him feel wat he made me feel.....suggestions??
2007-04-05 22:18:47 · 6 answers · asked by big pretty eyes 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Don't do it to your self.
Just move on and have a happy life. Don't waist your energy on revenge. It is seeing the ones that cause the upsets in my life as needing to be be gotten even with that I try my best to avoid. I see these types of thoughts as self-destructive and try to avoid them as completely as I possibly can.
Love your self and do the same.
Love and blessings Don
2007-04-06 02:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Release the resentment building inside you through creative enterprise and either forgive or completely cut ties with him. Get on with life and don't get caught up in petty revenge, it is not the way to happiness. Act for yourself--live for yourself; learn to become a creature of affirmation of the eternal recurrence of the same. When you learn to do that, you will find you don't even care about revenge, and his may actually enact the revenge you seek, and improve you on the way.
2007-04-05 22:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by Stills 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Living well is the best revenge.
You want to feel good. You deserve it.
I would like you to start by refocusing on the best thought you can find. Imagine all the good things going on in your life now. Imagine all the good aspects of your X.
If you find every good thought you can right now, more good things will come to you.
I promise.
Search the web for the "Law of Attraction". That is what is really going on in your life.
Best wishes.
2007-04-05 22:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by flip33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My suggestion is to life your life to the fullest. Do those things you did not do before. Find new and interesting friends and do wonderful and fun experiences with them.
That is the very best revenge you can have.
2007-04-06 16:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by concernedjean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was so wrong treated u like that, but don't do that to him, won't make u feel better
many things worthy doing making urself truly happy
think this way - leaving u is his lose
2007-04-05 22:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by chloe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry 'bout it ...hey there are plenty more letters in the Alphabet....maybe you could give Z a call.
2007-04-05 22:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by G.reaper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋