and she called off the wedding once she found out that he lied because she said she doesnt know how many other things he's lied about. Is she wrong for that and what should he tell her to make things better bcause she not budging?
2007-04-05 22:15:13 · 11 answers · asked by E-4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is so small and not worth calling off the wedding. Marriage is hard work and if she's going to throw in the towel over something that small then she's not ready anyway. Would she rather he cheated or something far worst?
2007-04-05 22:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you sure you're not talking bout yourself ? No she's not wrong. It's a good thing she found out when she did. Things would have been uglier if she found out AFTER they were married. They would have ended up divorced. They would have paid tons of cash cuz of a lie. What he should tell her ? He should be apologizing for the rest of his life. He should be on his hands & knees & BEG for forgiveness !
2007-04-05 22:20:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man, its a very shallow excuse to cancel of a wedding, unless of course the drug problem is already way out of hand.
The best thing he could do is court her again. k? talk to her parents and friends. Put her entire family under Payola ;-) eh..that last part - just kidding.
2007-04-05 22:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by omd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody in their right mind would knowingly marry a liar. She is protecting herself, and she is smart for doing it.
What he can say? Nothing, I think. It will take more than mere words to convince her he has turned over a new leaf. Getting help with his drug problem would be a start. So would getting relationship counselling.
2007-04-05 22:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha @ getting help with the drug problem. Anyways, smoking pot is not a problem. Why did he lie about it? Is she uptight about marajuana? If she is, he is probably better off without her.
2007-04-05 22:55:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
She's right. If he is taking drugs and not telling her she can't trust him. BTW, I've smoked reefer and that is not the issue; it's the lying about it.
2007-04-05 22:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
have another smoke and who cares
she sounds pretty uptight hes better off without her
2007-04-05 22:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it is any of your business.. Let them sort our their own problems.. That is the best way
2007-04-05 22:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by AdultMALE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a better advice for you is not to get involve whatever the outcome you might get blame for one of them.
2007-04-05 22:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by ybzcarlos1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not ur problem!
2007-04-06 00:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by Guly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋