hi freind i am a married person for last two years but i am able to satisfy my wife only for some occassions but on other occations she is not saitisfy till i take 50 to 55 minutes which is i think impossible to anyone. with other girls i feel well to do sex and there is not any problem but with them plz tell me what to do?
2007-04-05 20:19:26 · 27 answers · asked by dheeraj991 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
She is under too much stress. Lessen the stess somehow. Too much housework, too many financial issues, family issues...think what she could be stessed about. Maybe she nees more self worth or esteem...help her find ways to fufill her desires outside the bedroom, then and only then can she be free to be her very sexual self.
2007-04-05 20:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being cheated on is a big turn off.
Also, if you actually are with these other girls, I can't see you having the stamina to go 50 or 55 minutes.
Are you talking intercourse or oral sex?
If everyone is misunderstanding you, and you actually meant to say you never had a problem with satisfying other women before you got married, then that's a different story.
Be kind and attentive and affectionate out of bed. I assume by lasting almost an hour you are talking about intercourse. Many women need oral stimulation to reach climax. Try spending some of that hour on foreplay, and things should improve drastically.
2007-04-05 20:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her......seems likely but worth asking. Maybe change it up a bit, make it more exciting for her. Sometimes a woman can be a little intimidated by her husband if he isn't open to listening to what her fantasies are. If your the boss of the house or highly jealous than she may just not be completely able to relax with you. And going at her for 50 min. probably is a bad thing especially if you think your good and your wife is too worried about your ego to tell you "your doing it wrong" and if that is the case, ten to one, just to get you off her shes faking it anyway. Women are geared with needing to be comfortable, being able to trust, and needing to be able to talk to her man when they are in long term relationships.......What I am trying to say here is the problem is probably yours more than hers. Sorry Guy..........and if I understand you right and your messing around on her ? Your disgusting !
2007-04-05 20:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by She Said 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every woman can have an orgasim right away. Try finding out what really turns her on. As far as the other women, they were probably faking it. So don't think you are such a good lover. A good lover is one that takes the time to learn about his lover and what makes her feel good. Time has nothing to do with it. Clock watching can ruin the fun. Experiment with new things and maybe you will find something that you both can enjoy.
2007-04-05 20:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by Twisted Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a book, get a video and explain to her, in a way that she will be comfortable with, how you feel. Chances are she will respond positively to this. Remember...YOU ARE HER FIRST, she has no idea what is out there, open up her world, let her know that there is soooo much more to be done and you want to please her just as you have needs. She may shock you and become some sex craved vixen but without communication she will never know what you need, pretty sure she doesn't have a crystal ball, you need to tell her these things. good luck.
2016-04-01 00:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"with other girls i feel well to do sex and there is not any problem" That is the problem! And so you will know it isn't impossible for sex to last longer than 50-55 min. Trust me, where I am coming from a quicky is 30 min...
2007-04-05 20:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by mommyramey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont just try to do the deed, massage her, use foreplay, actually have a go and spend some time trying to satisfy her, talk to her and ask her what she wants you to do to her, but some sex toys, and 50 to 55 minutes is not impossible, jez mate thats just getting started, and stop sticking your dick in other girls maybe she knows and is not turned on by a cheating husband...
2007-04-05 20:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by mumma_of_4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a wife you are not satisfying and "other girls" that you are, I would say you are spending too much time satisfying other girls and not enough time on your wife.
Maybe she needs to be satisfied that you arent having sex with other girls? Maybe she knows you are cheating and has no interest in being satisfied.
2007-04-05 20:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by Dan The Answer Man 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I will assume you mean other girls be for you married your wife .
Start getting her excited with toys start having sex take a break using toy for awhile and go back to it when you are rested up again .Foreplay is every thing in sex .
2007-04-05 20:28:28 · answer #9 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop your wife??
No, really you can´t satisfy your wife.
If she´s the only one is not being satisfied then..... the problem is yours. Make people happy, keep on satisfying other girls and let your wife be satisfied with someone else.
2007-04-06 05:46:12 · answer #10 · answered by usbc s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋