....It is after a brutal argument, and one of several over a three month period. He leaves for the night but has no intention of cheating until his sisters friend throws herself at him. Then the couple get back together and he starts to talk and they understand things about eachother better......should the cheating be forgiven?
2007-04-05 20:13:46 · 16 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i dont know
2007-04-05 20:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Willie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends upon the relationship. A brutal fight is really no excuse to cheat. Not planning it in advance doesn't mean that it's okay either. The fact of the matter is that the person chose to break the sacred bond of commitment. There will always be temptation and there will periodically be bad times in all relationships. It's doesn't excuse being unfaithful. I find it funny that women always try to justufy and make okay what the man did. The truth of the matter is that the man knew exactly what he was doing and chose to disrespect the woman he was with because he was having a good time in the present. If the woman wants to forgive then she can try. But I would make it a point to go to counseling and make that dude get tested for STD's, even if he used protection. He's gotta crawl on the ground and kiss some butt in my opinion. People often think they can forgive but end up not being able to. Don't make any rash decisions like having a baby with the loser.
2007-04-06 03:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by Surfer_Lee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute....is the couple not together? Are they married or just dating? If dating did they break up and then get back together or what?
IF they were married and he cheated several times over a 3 month period *I* would kick his butt to the curb. If they were dating and had broken up and he saw the other girls and then they got back together then well he didn't really cheat.
2007-04-06 06:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by celtic_princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what your girlfriend wants to do., she may forgive you if you explain the situation honestly to her, or she may not. How strong is your relationship?, how will she react?, and is this something you plan on continuing in the future, because if that's the case, she just might kick u to the curb..., and you can't say you could blame her. Maybe go for some counseling to help with relationship issues. That's a really hard ? to answer.. do what feels right in your heart....either be honest with her, or make other plans with your life if your not happy with her, don't drag her down, because of your weakness and insecuritys. Good-Luck....
2007-04-06 03:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating, no matter what the circumstances. Is he going to cheat on your everytime you have a fight? That's ridiculous. It's just an excuse for him to let steam off on another woman. Tell him to shape up or ship out.
2007-04-06 04:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by trikelkelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved her enough, you would have resisted the temptation regardless of how bad the argument was. How would he have felt it she did it to him? That is the question he needs to be answering.
Generally speaking, once a cheater gets by with it, he will do it again. There are exceptions to the rule, but the relationship needs to be an extremely strong one to survive it.
2007-04-06 03:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the Book
His Needs, Her Needs, By Willard Harley Jr. then answer the questions about how you feel about your relationship
1) are you willing to accept responsibility for you "ACTIONS" during this period.
1) Are you truely willing to "FORGIVE HIM" if you try to save the marriage?
Your call, and you get to live with the conciquences of your actions.
2007-04-06 03:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sully 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-04-06 03:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to answer this. It depends on your capacity to forgive the cheater. If my husband cheats, I personally wouldn't be able to trust him again and our marriage will never be the same.
2007-04-06 03:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, forgive him, because he is honest to tell you the truth, a lot of men often denied they cheated. But... make sure it will not happen again. or else call for a seperation.
2007-04-06 03:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by emma l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No cheating is cheating, you'll do it agian ! as I did ! a mans like a door knob ! any women can open it ! because were all whore's
2007-04-06 03:21:09 · answer #11 · answered by James k 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋