if a girl was 'raped' more than three times is it her fault?

Question

the girl is not me but a girl I know who claims to have been raped more than three times. she tends to carry herself in a...don't want to be mean, but whorish manner. She dresses in little outfits and even poses nude on the internet.

and yes I know the meaning of rape. It is just a question a friend and I were talking about. I wanted other opinions.

Answer 1

Of course it isn't her fault, but if she doesn't report it than it's her problem.

Answer 2

Statistics say once someone has become a victim of rape they are more likely to be raped again. On this note I think she does put her self at a higher risk by posing nude etc. Is it her fault no. No one has a right to rape anyone for any reason. Unfortunately sexual victims who have not dealt with what has happened to them tend to go one of two ways. They either hate the idea of sexual things or they tend to be promiscuous sexually. Rape is about much more than sex and is very hard to deal with when it happens to you. I have been raped twice and also I have found out sometimes people seem to be very cruel. The second person that raped me was in the position to know the story or as much of the story as I would tell to the first rape. After the second rape happened I told a friend. In talking things through (the friend that I told was a male) my friend told me that the second one because I knew him and he had the first story already knew how I would react and knew what to expect from me which made me an easy victim for him. So apparently sometimes telling your story or describing any amount of details to what happened isn't a good thing. The second person I was raped by was a boyfriend of a close friend. Now if you think that to sit down and think of some guy taking advantage of me talking about personal things with friend didn't cause anger issues for a while....welll but I have dealt with them now too. But some people in the world are quiet sick in the head and would use someone telling something bad that happened to them to do the same thing to them.

Answer 3

Raped by who? ..date rape?it's not rape if u go back after the first time. if it was rape u wouldn't go near this person. If it is a familly member raping you, than u are a victim...get help!

Answer 4

No
i don't think so
what is the fault of the girl
don't u know the meaning of rape?

Answer 5

If somebody takes an action on you it is NEVER your fault. But you have to ask yourself why does this keep happening?
Everyone must be responsible for their own actions.

Who you hang around.
Situation you allow yourself to be in.
Reaction to situations.
Trusting to easily.

Being an easy victim doesn't mean people should victimize you. It just means they probably will.

Answer 6

yes becuase then it becomes sexuall consent becuase you must be getting drunk and letting guys take advantage of you, an that my friend is called sex, not rape, alot of girls like to call it rape these days, but rape is defined as written on this web site http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_(word). dont twist it into a female for of "i got too F***** up and someone had sex with me and then the next morning i regreted it. so deal with it! and if your were """""RAPED"""""" then call the damn cops and dont sit here pretending that in the context of the meaning of the word you actually got rapped! Grow UP!!!

Answer 7

On average women are assaulted 6 times before seeking help.

And No...

Answer 8

I wouldn't make that assumption, but if the rapes are "random," and she doesn't know the suspects, then I would suspect she would be making it up or exaggerating in order to get attention.

Answer 9

if its rape, then no its not her fault.. however, if she is one of those girls that get drunk and promiscuous and regret sleeping with someone once they come to and realize whats going on, then yah thats her fault.

Answer 10

No matter what the circumstances, if its rape, its not the victims fault.