Get involved in some sort of club with people who share your interests and that should help. Also, see a mental health professional.
2007-04-05 18:47:54
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answered by Brown-eyed girl 4
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The 'nothing' and 'nobody caring for me' are very different from being scared of people, crowds and gatherings. Speaking as an agoraphobe, the only was I was able to overcome my fear and discomfort of and around crowds was to go talk to a trained professional, to first nail down what my issue was, and to then find the best course of treatment.
I would NOT recommend you try to get yourself on Paxil or drugs of that nature; more often than not, you can overcome this without the use of drugs. Because I'm a more holistic person, I chose to go with herbal supplements (namely a product called 'Nerve 8') that helped me to relax enough to control my anxiety. Honestly, from what you've said in your question, it sounds like you just need to talk to someone who knows how to help you.
Think on this: there is at least one person on this planet you would die for, and two who would do the same for you. You might not be able to think of them, but they exist.
2007-04-06 16:56:50
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answered by okodokuo 2
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You should have mentioned your age with this question... because the psychology of human beings change with the age...
Look your thinking at the age 5, that at 12, at 16, at 21, at 30, at 45, at 50, at 60 and above 60... It keeps changing...
If you do not want to mingle with people ... so what... why to worry...? Just do not care... take care of yourself... you will see that people will approach you and make you their friend...
The condition is that you should not look gloomy, you should not be always crying for this and for that... be cheerful and see the results...
2007-04-05 19:09:02
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answered by Harish Jharia 7
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Always remember that you matter to someone,don't let your feelings pull you down.
Somebody does care, you just don't realize it, most people don't unless someone shows it, but you don't have to wait till someone actually shows it then you believe.
If you have one or a few close friends, try hang out with them first. Slowly you will built your self esteem and less likely to feel shy.
Then you will find it easier to be in any crowds or other people. Good luck!
2007-04-05 18:53:58
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answered by FloralLover 6
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You should realize that your something. You don't need anybody else to make you feel special. I don't have any friends either and I love myself and care about myself and that's all that matters. You shouldn't go through life feeling sorry for yourself it won't get you anywhere. Trust me I've been there and I decided that I didn't want to live like that anymore. And I changed. I regret wasting years feeling crappy about myself.
And for the whole scared of crowds thing. I like to picture people what they would have been like as children. It always makes me laugh.
If you feel like talking just im me!
2007-04-05 18:53:11
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answered by beyondthelimit 5
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Try looking"out"-try volunteering at a medical hospital in a ward or help young kids..or garden or something..look around you ..instead of at you..all the time....never forget..nobody is nothing everybody is something and is cared for..people have different ways of showing how they care...some hug..some talk on the phone..just because nobody hugs you /calls you...doesnt mean you are uncared for
2007-04-09 08:36:54
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answered by standandwork 5
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well i kinda had the same situation, its called low self esteem, untill you come to terms with yourself and your body you wont be able to accept others as friends or feel comfortable in a crowd becuase your thinking negitively about yourself, accept the person that you are becuase theres no way of changing yourself, you could only come to terms with yourself and mature!
-hope this helps you. :)
2007-04-05 18:49:04
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answered by ifucouldbeme 3
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come above selfconsciousness feel like allare same human beings care about others then others will be caring about you make friends and have positive thinking to be something and to go ahead from you present barrier of mind
2007-04-05 23:22:01
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answered by ? 3
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no the first step vat u should do is"try once"....i think u havent even tried once in talking in a social gathering......when u talk in front of others u think dat ppl around u are stupid and think u are the beast and pppl vil lift there eyebrows seeing u(reply me)
2007-04-05 18:49:35
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answered by jipsyjam 1
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Anxiety follows the introverted...
Try introducing yourself to people at a conference several hundred times over. You will get over your shyness.
2007-04-05 18:51:48
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answered by ★Greed★ 7
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