there's someone towards whom i feel sometimes love ,sometimes hatred.ya,there has been a reason for this .but what i dont understand is,do i hate/love that person?
2007-04-05 18:10:58 · 21 answers · asked by gudi 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
YES!!!!! Without a doubt I personally believe that there is a "thin line between love and hate". If you think about it even when the love involves family do you always have (happy, loving, smiles, and laughter)? Do you never argue with someone you truly care about? I believe you can not really love a person until you can learn to love and disagree, by being you not who you think the person wants you to be. If you are not being yourself with this person then you are not going to be happy. So be yourself, get angry, stomp your feet, yell, let out your anger and then make-up. That is always fun. But seriously if you love a man you are going to definitely feel like you hate him at some point and time it is totally natural. You don't really hate him the person, most likely it is his action at the present time.
2007-04-05 18:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by berrydumplin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The More You Hate The more You Love
someone said this and its true, think it
You Love some body is BY YOUR CHOICE.
so with love hate n anger n care and need n everything comes in its with the package. Love never comes in single.
You told you have some reason.
So its obvious that hate n anger comes in your mind .
you Love that person and when he/she is not able to complete your expectation, it gave way for your hate.
Juts try to understand that person why he/she is doing so with you.
Soon You will get your answer by self
2007-04-05 19:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think love and hate are really close emotions. I had this same experience with my ex boyfriend. I loved him but at the same time I hated what he was doing to me (we soon broke up)... both are passionate emotions, I think they're very much related. I felt passionately towards him so yes I believe you can love a person and hate them at the same time. He's the only person that I truly believe that for, but it can happen. If i'm mad at someone but love them normally i wouldn't say i hate them, but in that case love/hate definitely.
2007-04-05 18:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by Principessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol it's funny how almost everyone said Sasuke or had him in their list. xD;; But yeah... I hated Sakura from Naruto at first because she was useless and annoying because of her obsession with Sasuke. (Although I shouldn't talk... I have an obsession over him too :x) But I really like her in the Shippuuden episodes because she became a lot stronger. And I also love/hate Renge from Ouran High School Host Club. I hate her because she's really annoying and I swear to god that everytime I see her or hear her laugh, I die a little on the inside. D:< But I like her because she has her funny moments. xD
2016-05-18 02:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by jerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and hate are the two sides of the same coin so it is possible to love or hate somebody based on the swings in your moods.
2007-04-05 18:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by Rahul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You actually hate him.
You dont want to believe you hate him and thats why you get the feeling of love. His action makes you feel bad, and some of his actions make you feel good. Deep down your psyche knows, you will never be happy with him, and thats where the hate is churning.
On the above, you might get a sense of sensual pleasure, or may just get the scent of having a sensual pleasure, where the love is showing up.
In all such cases, I advise people to hear the deeper himself. Because deep inside we are never wrong.
Good luck
2007-04-05 18:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by Sanjay 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes, you do. and that can be very frustrating. i am going through this with someone right now and i ask myself the same thing every day but you know, really, even though they are opposites, they are very similar in their levels of passion.
and i believe that one can entertain opposing thoughts in their mind simultaneously, because i do it all the time! it makes me feel like a toaster in a bathtub but I just deal with it try and deal with it
2007-04-05 18:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by jewels.and.gym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes- love is a "cage" we don't want to escape from. We don't want to be "tied down"; but we don't want to "let go"- either. It happens all the time. -And it's part of the complex experience that love IS. :)
2007-04-05 18:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by Joseph, II 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes u can
it is cause that person to whom u r reffering, does such things that make u like him and sometimes even hate him
it is he or she who is wierd
2007-04-05 20:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by Nandini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it shows u love that person, and i will give u a advice just go and tell him about ur feelings it will be nice for u,
2007-04-05 18:20:15 · answer #10 · answered by Gourav (HR.) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋