I want to die!! Help me?

Question

Im 24 years old smart funny attractive yet everything is my life is going wrong, my family hates me, my sister doesnt want to know me, my best friend stabbed me in the back i have no job but am well educated why is everything in my life going so wrong what did i do to deserve this?? i cry myself to sleep thinking im being punished for something that i havent done..i have no one i can trust to turn to for help. why is this happening?

Answer 1

I was worried about you. Life might seem hard at times, but really it isn't. Stop self-pitying, try to enjoy it. After all, you'll die at some point, and I bet being alive is better than that.
We live in a fallen world ... "stuff" happens on the good and the bad. Troubles will either cause you to look to Him or look away. All you need to do is tell someone you can trust about what is happening/has happened for counseling, arrange some counseling and perhaps get some anti-depressants to get you through temporarily. Don't be scared. You can do it, thousands of others have had similar experiences to yours and now have happy lives.You must not feel guilty. Nothing was your fault. If you need help please email me. Never give up.

Answer 2

Sorry to hear this! You need to stand back and take a good look at your life! Ask yourself why these things are happening. Is it the people you are hanging with? Maybe you need to choose a different crowd of people? If you look hard enough, and are sincere-I am sure you will find a good job sooner or later. I am sure your family doesn't really hate you! I think you need to have a heart to heart talk with your parents and let them know how your truly feeling. Sometimes things need talked over, so everything can come out into the open, so no misunderstanding are happening. The only person on this earth that is punishing you-is you! So give yourself a break, and MAKE some changes. Nothing happens in your life, unless you CHANGE things! Good luck!

Answer 3

STOP!!! Now think about some good things that have happened recently. Sit down and make a list of them. Then make a list of your strengths and weaknesses. Then make a list of the opportunities you have and a list of the threats that would stop you from achieving some of those opportunities.

Then think about yourself. Do you like yourself? If not, why not? And what should you do to like yourself? If you do like yourself, then understand that you might have to break away from those who are taking action against you and "start afresh". Your are a very unique person and you have some great talents that will help this world of ours, You just have to understabd what they are and then start using them. Put the past behind you, because you can't do anything to change it. You can only change the future. So what are you going to do about it?
A new job? A new outlook on life? Every morning you should say "Thank you God for putting me here." And you should ask for guidance on how you can use your talents to help this world of ours. Because it requires each of us to do our "thing" to make it a better place. Set yourself a measureable goal such as "By July 1 I will have found a new job doing (whatever it is you are good at) that will earn me $ XXXX allowing me to find a new place to live and make new friends."
At the moment you need to rise above the difficulties you have faced and understand that all of it is telling you to take a new direction in life. Finding that direction, using your talents and discovering your new future can be an exciting, happy and exhilirating period. But let go of the past entirely and reach out for the future.

Answer 4

Time to consider a 'fresh start' if things are on the down-hill run of BAD.

Start a new life, don't abandon your family but maybe distance yourself from them for a little while.
Move somewhere new, doesn't matter if you rent or anything else. But the catch is that you NEED to start over and that means starting everything over.
Your friendships (with the people that haven't stabbed you in the back that is!) will get a new lease on life and improve.
Once you are out of your old 'habits', habitat and life you will find that it is easier to find a good job - one you will enjoy too.
Once you are more settled and confident again then the guys will notice you and you can pick someone nice to be with.

It is all a matter of timing and starting over, nothing more.

Answer 5

Well, your problems can be answered easily. fix them. here is what you need to do about your problems:

1) your family hates you: Why? did you do something wrng. there's a reason for everything. Find out what it is and apologize and don't do it anymore. If its something else, try to work it out
2) you sister: same thing as your parents!
3) your friend stabbed you: Forget about her. she's obviously not your friend if she did this. if she apologized or anything and she doesn't usually do this, forgive and forget. but if she hasn't and she always does this, just forget.
4) you don't have a job: I'd suggest posting your resume somewhere, and while you wait for a better job, find a small job to do, like working at a grocery store, or somethig.

Remember, no matter how bad you feel, if you can improve just 1 of these things, it could make things better. I hope your life gets better, and i know how you feel! hang in there!

Answer 6

That sounds like the last couple of years of my life. Not all the same events but still far from perfect. Of course you don't deserve any of that. Most people don't. Life is full of rough patches and everyone goes through it at some point and to some extent. Sometimes it feels like things won't ever get better. And even when things start to look better, something else happens. But eventually things WILL get better. Maybe not exactly the way you hoped or as soon as you will like, but they will get better. You're just going to have to be very very patient.

My problems got so tough for me to deal with that I now suffer from depression. And even though that isn't the best news, it atleast gave me a reason as to why everything affected me so badly. Its been atleast 2 1/2 years since my life turned upside down and things are now getting better. I still have my ups and downs, but nothing like before.

I'm definitly not going to tell you to just get over it or tell you other people have it worse because that does not help (and even if they do, everyone takes everything differently. Something terrible for u may not be terrible for someone else and vice versa). Just don't pitty yourself. Try to think of something worth living for. Something that makes you happy and can keep yourself from thinking about everything thats going wrong in your life.

Instead of trying to get advice over the internet, maybe you should seek advice from a professional. You'll get a lot of thoughtless remarks from people which may make things worse.

Answer 7

Number One, you don't really want to die. If you did you wouldn't have posted here. You want a network of people who can support you. I have been in the deepest of holes in my life. I was engaged to a man who, I later learned, was addicted to crack cocaine. I lived in a roach infested rooming house for 6 months. I can't tell you why it happened. I don't know your religious affiliation, but I can tell you I believe in GOD. I believe that he only gives us situations that we can handle, and he also gives us the tools to get through them. You are very young. I'm only 5 years older, but please belive me when I tell you that you will look back at you life from 29 and see an entirerly differnt picture than now. Now what you do is learn from the life experience that have been thrown in your way. Friends come and go, families come and go. You just need to trust in yourself, try to live a right life. Maybe you need to move for a fresh start. Look at your options and make goals for yourself. You will be ok. Besides, look at all the responses your cry for help garnerd. In 11 minutes, I saw 35 responses. You are not alone.

Answer 8

You're having a pity party, which is ok once in awhile, but hopefully you're not like that all the time. People get tired of being around those who are always saying "woe is me".

Why don't you have a job? You're well educated and smart, according to you. What are you doing to make YOUR life good and productive?

As for why is it happening to you...why not? Do you have a terminal disease? Do you have high bills due to a disaster that wiped out everything you own? Have you lost a limb or your sight or your hearing? If not, your life isn't too darn bad.

You don't say why everyone is walking away from you, but it might have something to do with the way you act, the way you treat people, what you expect from everyone.

Get out and get a job, do something to display your self-worth, help people who truly do have difficult lives. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.

Answer 9

you need to go to the doctor, to give you some pills for depression i use novo-venlafaxine it organic,i understand you are in a liveing mightmare, i lived in a world like that my selfit not worth dieing for.you have the world a head of you why don,t you move to a nother city or even a new zone i did that my life was h-ll. now i have a better life and i e-mail my family. i personally started to get along with my mother because she,s 500miles a way from me and i don,t talk to my brothers for years so i can underst and what your going throght my mother wished me dead, she said she would razer have her best friends son then me.and she rub it in my face. so if i can go on liveing know ing that i think you can to. it maybe hard but i think movie is the best thing you can do. but if dosn,t help you then try the suicide hot line 1-800-784-2433 or try you help line in your phone book you can i,m me at [e-mail] or e-mail me by pushing my pichure, i will in vite you so i can help you more i know how it feels when i,m in h-ll.

Answer 10

people tend to crash and burn in their life, and you must always try to get through this without giving up cause that will only be an experience that you personally went through and you learn from it. come out the other end of the situation as a stronger person rather than just giving up. i completely understand you're situation...trust me...and i just wanted to give up and just die, but just because things don't go your way in life, doesn't mean that you should just not look forward for the future. be a strong person a try to look at a positive side and do something about it rather than looking at all the negative things in your life. good luck~!