I like this girl alot. i dont know how too tell her. We are good friends and hve talked befor about if we were gay. we both said we were not. I think we both said it because we are mormon, however i think there might be more. I dont want to ruin the friendship, but if we could be more i think i would like too be.
I know shes been offended when asked if she was gay befor and i dont want to offend her but i really think there might be something more there. any sugestions.
2007-04-05 17:30:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I was in a position like u 8 months ago and now me and this girl are in a relationship! Iv known her for two years and last year we started gettin close...talkin alot...we had the conversation about being gay and i admitted to her i was more gay then straight and she said shes had the random "hookin up with girls dream" but nothing more. As months went on we grew closer and closer and i started developing feelings for her, and i thought there was something from her side as well..I wasnt completely sure and didnt wana make a fool out of myself so i told another friend who knew both of us to call her and ask her "out of curiosity" if there is anything going on between us coz wev been really close lately. This got her thinking about us and it took us two months to actually hook up and get together, she was confused and kept sayin no and yes no and yes and than it was YES and its been yes till now and its still yes! Just do it...u never know...dont miss out on something dat u mite regret later. When i was 14 i liked my friend as well but never told her and she still doesnt know..and now she is in a serz relo and woteva cudev happened then we both missed out on coz i didnt open my mouth! So do it see wot happens...if shes a real friend she will get passed it and understand, and u can get over it by finding some1 else!
2007-04-05 18:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being honest is always the best thing to do. Ask yourself why you think something is there? Is it really there or are you imagining it because you want it to be there? If you believe that the vibe really is there, then go ahead and talk to her. Just tell her that you have something serious you want to talk to her about but you dont want it to make anything weird. Then say something about how you like her more than a friend and see how she reacts. Play it by ear from there. If she freaks out, then it wasnt meant to be, but at least you wont always wonder what would have happened if you would have told her. Better to know than not know. You can do this! Good luck to you!
2007-04-05 17:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by Robin L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very carefully. Try going to a movie with her that has a romantic story behind it and when it get to a romantic part, whisper something in her ear for her to think about. At least she will be effected by the mood of the movie and be a little more responsive to your statement. Good luck.
2007-04-05 17:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by betrayed 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, if she got offended when you asked her if she was gay, i think it's pretty unlikely that she returns your affections, and i suggest that you start looking for someone else, even if that might seem a little difficult. but if you feel the need to ask her or bring it up, i'd suggest that you do so indirectly. ask her for her opinion on homosexuality and work from there. good luck!
2007-04-05 17:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ruin your friendship.
Mormon= Sexually repressed.
Your friend and you should:
Get on a bus, get out of Utah, and live a little.
Lesbian? Maybe. Confused? Probably.
2007-04-05 17:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by i love carbs 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow. That is hot. I really hope that works out for you. Try getting her drunk and taking advantage of her. Then she will relaize how much she likes the touch of another woman and will be yours forever. Youll be free to have hot lesbian sex everyday.
2007-04-05 17:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be truefull with her. Just tell how you feel! Don't worry about being "GAY" there is no such thing! If you like her, and she likes you , thats all thats matters... GO FOR IT and GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-04-05 17:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by lizzy2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say that u like her see her reaction if it was bad say u were jokin around if it wasnt dat bad then good luk to boht of u nd btw ur lesbian not gay
2007-04-05 17:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by ghadz7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pay attention to her .complment her.make time for her flirtcall her quite names like butterfly or cupcake write her a pome or a love letter.
2007-04-05 17:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to come over to your house when your mom and dad aren't home ask her to remove her clothes and panty and putr her in the bathtub and wash ger give her a bath.and make her relax.
cinderellamrg@yahoo.com
2007-04-05 18:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋