i'm still in love with my daughters father. we have been friends since we ended our relationship but now we both think we should have gave each other another try before we ended now our old feelings are back we are always reminicing about our past. now the problem is we both are married to other people he is my best friend and he knows things about me that my husband don't even know about me. he is all i think about morning noon and night we talk on the phone everyday all day i've always been able to be myself around him but around my husband i feel so not me i don't want to hurt my husband cause he is a good man i do love him i'm just not in love with him. and i don't want to keep holding on to this other man if i'm not gonna be with him i don't know what to do this is causing a problem with my everyday life i'm so unhappy please give advice thank you for reading!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-05 16:54:38 · 4 answers · asked by mygirlfriends_now 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its always easy to look back on a past relationship, and think of and miss all the good things about it when things aren't going well in your present relationship. Don't forget, though, that it was the bad things about that relationship that made you two break up in the first place. You shouldn't be talking every day to your ex, you should b talking every day to your husband, and seeing what you can do to recreate the romance in your marriage. Only after giving it your absolute best shot should you leave him.... the you will do it without guilt.
2007-04-05 17:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you show your husband half of whatever it is you're showing your X? I dont get it. If it didnt work out the first time, what makes you think it will work out the 2nd time? And what about the mates on both sides. If you're unable to sort it all out by yourself, please speak to a professional to help you shed some light on what you're think you're feeling. PLEASE dont jump from the frying pan into the fire.
2007-04-05 17:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you ever gave your husband a real chance. He doesn't know you like your ex because you don't open up to him, you keep it privaite between you and your ex. Not fair... You should try harder with your hubby you owe it to him.
2007-04-05 17:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly don't love your husband then it is time to do something about it. You don't stay in a relationship with someone that you don't love. It isn't fair to him, yourself or your daughter.
2007-04-05 16:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋