OMG we had this exact discussion in our house last night! lol For me, I want you to look at me so I know for sure that you understood what I was saying. I can't tell you the number of times I would say something and get an "Yeah OK" response only for the instructions never to be carried out or whatever they were. The explanation is always "Oh I thought you meant xyz". So now, I want you to look at me so I can see it in your eyes that you "get" what I am saying to you.
If men had a better track record at not looking and still listening then women wouldn't require you to look at them now, would we?!
2007-04-05 16:52:30
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answered by Maple Leaf 7
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Women like men to make eye contact show they are interested in the conversation. And it is also polite
2007-04-05 23:46:44
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes listening requires looking at the speaker if listener is a man and the speaker is a woman. Especially if they are married!
2007-04-05 23:39:20
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answered by grasshopper 4
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If when we talk to you, it isn't worth a look in the eyes, then you show no interest in what we are talking about. The race can wait!! What we have to say is worth a look.
2007-04-05 23:37:52
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answered by Suzie- Q 5
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Because some men are like children.....When you want a child to listen to you, you make sure they are looking at you. That way you know they are actually paying attention to you.
2007-04-05 23:40:26
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answered by SAMMY 5
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Wow. My husband was watching soccer an hour ago and this whole thing came up. Whenever he stopped looking at me, I stopped talking. Luckily he noticed fairly soon...
2007-04-06 00:16:18
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answered by 1K 6
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Because we want you to at least PRETEND to listen. Besides, it's respectful. I'm sure you would require no less from us.
2007-04-06 00:01:37
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answered by Tigger 5
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what the first person said ^
plus you can read a person, by looking them in the eyes,
and i know i definetly would like to know if a guy i'm attracted to, might have a spark/little chemistry...
2007-04-05 23:38:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Who
Judge Judy women or your Mum?
2007-04-06 01:45:42
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answered by ausblue 7
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Because unless a guy is looking at you when your talking to him, they never seem to hear you. My husband never hears what I say even when he is looking at me!
2007-04-05 23:40:40
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answered by Sherrie L 5
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